I'm not so much asking for advice, but i put this here just to be safe.
Have you ever felt like a friend is just using you?
In my case: Said friend and I have known each other since we were little. We still talk, but sometimes it feels like they talk to me more when they needs something. I've noticed this on more than one occasion. I rarely say no. Does this person see me as a pushover, even though we're friends?
Opinions?
What to do, what to do
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What to do, what to do
I'm so sick and tired of being sick and tired.
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ShyGirl - Who's afraid of the big bad wolf?
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RE: What to do, what to do
Yes, I have felt like a friend was using me.
...Actually friendS and in most cases they are.
& Yeah, your friends does seem like a pushover.
I'd recommened talking to her about it, tell her how you feel and maybe that you need some space from her.
(I think you need some space, but thats just me)
Than walk away and let everything shink in and when you guys are ready you can start hanging out again if you want to.
...Actually friendS and in most cases they are.
& Yeah, your friends does seem like a pushover.
I'd recommened talking to her about it, tell her how you feel and maybe that you need some space from her.
(I think you need some space, but thats just me)
Than walk away and let everything shink in and when you guys are ready you can start hanging out again if you want to.
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Re: RE: What to do, what to do
PunkRockAngel4Life wrote: Yes, I have felt like a friend was using me.
...Actually friendS and in most cases they are.
& Yeah, your friends does seem like a pushover.
I'd recommened talking to her about it, tell her how you feel and maybe that you need some space from her.
(I think you need some space, but thats just me)
Than walk away and let everything shink in and when you guys are ready you can start hanging out again if you want to.
Kay, learn to spell/use grammar a bit better, no offense.
Anyway, we're close, always have been. I don't think I need a break from her. It's just in the past year or so I've noticed this. I've been called too nice. I've gotten a lot better at saying no though. I was just curious as to whether she sees me as a pushover or not.
I'm so sick and tired of being sick and tired.
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ShyGirl - Who's afraid of the big bad wolf?
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Yep. I've been used. Thing is,
I conformed and started reading the Twilight series, pity me.
^^ Unplugged is a grammar nazi and pointed out that it should be "than" instead of "then", and then told me that the Dutch should be the world's teachers.
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^^ Unplugged is a grammar nazi and pointed out that it should be "than" instead of "then", and then told me that the Dutch should be the world's teachers.
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I'd turn the tables.... go to her if u need something (even if its not really a big deal). if friendship works both ways, she'd be happy to help you out. if not, then...i might question that she's using u more than being a friend
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