Right, This is going to be hard to explain as it's rather complicated with me and and my boyfriend.
Well here goes. I've been with him for a year and 8 months and yes I do love him. Although we've been going out that time, During the summer we broke up. Tbh, He was a complete dick about it. He told me he didn't love me as much and that we were to go on a break. Couple days later, He breaks up with me. Ok, So a week after that we were still seeing each other (if you get me?) and he was talking about getting back together. Couple days later I checked out his myspace and there's a girl. So i text him and he tells me that he lied because he didn't want to hurt me - but he got with her the day after we broke up. But what made me laugh, the two months he went out with her he was still coming back to me - yes which i realise now was a bad idea. Plus it was funny, Apparently he was allowed to go out with new people but everytime I mentioned another guy he'd get jealous and start an arguement. Some of which were really bad.
At the end of July I found out I was pregnant from him. At the beginning of August I went on holiday, He told me to look after myself and that he'd be here for me when I get back. When I eventually got back we got back together (for the sake of the little one), Couple of days later one of his friends ring me and tell me I have the right to know. My boyfriend got his willy wet more than once while I was away - which I have not comfronted him about. Founding out about this got me really stressed and ill that I lost the baby.
It's now November, I love him so much, He's been a big part of my life. I've never cheated on him in anyway.
However, The past couple of days I've been hanging out with this other guy. The boyfriend doesn't knowbecause I'd seriously be attacked with a whole load of questions (and yes I know it's wrong to lie) But honestly, nothing is happening between me and this other kid. But every time I'm with him I get these feelings, like butterflies and I haven't felt this way since I got with my boyfriend for the first time.
So I don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend and I care for him so much but I know he's hurt me in the worst way he could of. And everytime I talk or text this new guy I can't help think how it could be different.
Seriously confused.
What to do?
What to do?
by ElectroSeksual on 11-14-2009 5:59 am
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by FairyLightPhenomena on 11-14-2009 6:59 am
As much as you seem to love him, your boyfriend seems like a d**k...You have no real reason to stay with him now, and it might be best if you didn't...
That isnt saying you should get with the other guy straight away, but stay close, things might happen...You can already see yourself that thiongs could be different, and if you honestly think its right, go for it...
That isnt saying you should get with the other guy straight away, but stay close, things might happen...You can already see yourself that thiongs could be different, and if you honestly think its right, go for it...
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by L on 11-14-2009 7:12 am
- So he had sex with others while you weren't together - big deal.
- You had sex with your ex while he was with another girl and got pregnant - that's pretty stupid.
- Use protection.
- Having a relationship for the sake of the kid most probably won't work.
- Sounds like you are falling in love with this other guy. It's absolutely normal to only feel in that special way in the beginning. It'll fade, too, if you start a relationship with the other guy, after some time.
- In the end only you can decide, and we can neither tell you what you're really feeling, nor what will turn out better in the end.
- You had sex with your ex while he was with another girl and got pregnant - that's pretty stupid.
- Use protection.
- Having a relationship for the sake of the kid most probably won't work.
- Sounds like you are falling in love with this other guy. It's absolutely normal to only feel in that special way in the beginning. It'll fade, too, if you start a relationship with the other guy, after some time.
- In the end only you can decide, and we can neither tell you what you're really feeling, nor what will turn out better in the end.
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by MetalSuicide on 11-14-2009 9:55 am
Ningage wrote: You're pregnant?
Get a coat hanger and yank the fucker out.
I wish someone yanked you the fuck out
Dickwad
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by Ningage on 11-14-2009 10:06 am
Hahahhahaha.
People can't yank me out. I'm already out of the womb.
Though I do suppose that I could get scratched with a coat hanger nowadays.
I hate when that happens. Get scratched anyway.
Cool stuff, Aaron.
People can't yank me out. I'm already out of the womb.
Though I do suppose that I could get scratched with a coat hanger nowadays.
I hate when that happens. Get scratched anyway.
Cool stuff, Aaron.
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by MetalSuicide on 11-14-2009 10:12 am
Would you mind changing your status from EB's biggest bigot to EB's biggest fuckwad
It'd be much more accurate
It'd be much more accurate
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by Ningage on 11-14-2009 10:39 am
You seem to like ending your compound words in 'wad'. I would quite enjoy researching what goes on behind the repeatability of words for certain people. It would be quite an interesting experiment.
Thank you very much, Aaron.
I shall cite you as a inspiring source in the future, my good friend.
Thank you very much, Aaron.
I shall cite you as a inspiring source in the future, my good friend.
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by FairyLightPhenomena on 11-14-2009 10:43 am
...would you two please care to waffle somewhere other than in someones thread, and get back on topic..?
Ningage- If you had read more carefully, she lost the baby through stress...
Ningage- If you had read more carefully, she lost the baby through stress...
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by Ningage on 11-14-2009 10:47 am
Hahahah, seriously?
I didn't know that was possible.
I really learned something new today, thanks OP.
I didn't know that was possible.
I really learned something new today, thanks OP.
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by MetalSuicide on 11-14-2009 11:09 am
Ningage wrote: Hahahah, seriously?
I didn't know that was possible.
I really learned something new today, thanks OP.
I'm glad it happened too
Just so you could learn something new
How the fuck can you say "thankyou" to someone for the mere fact they lost their child
Jesus Christ I wish you were here just so I could kick the shit through you for that
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by Ningage on 11-14-2009 11:15 am
You say 'mere fact', as in it is insignificant in the long run, which it really is.
Lots of people have miscarriages, and the best part is it cleans out the ol' egg system so you can have a new baby in 5 to 10 work days.
If I was there I would not wish to have the shit kicked out of me, I would wish to explore Australia and see what the foreign life was like. Can one be kicked so hard that they can defecate? I wish to know this. Might do experiments later. You sure are full of ideas, Aaron.
Lots of people have miscarriages, and the best part is it cleans out the ol' egg system so you can have a new baby in 5 to 10 work days.
If I was there I would not wish to have the shit kicked out of me, I would wish to explore Australia and see what the foreign life was like. Can one be kicked so hard that they can defecate? I wish to know this. Might do experiments later. You sure are full of ideas, Aaron.
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RE: What to do?
by harveyassen on 11-14-2009 11:17 am
confront your bf, and tell him everything
have the courage to do so
It is your choice to take care of the
child and treat that child as your own
don't care if your bf abandon you
if you are more happy to guy you just
met then you have the freedom to do so
it is better to follow what you feel ..
have the courage to do so
It is your choice to take care of the
child and treat that child as your own
don't care if your bf abandon you
if you are more happy to guy you just
met then you have the freedom to do so
it is better to follow what you feel ..
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by MetalSuicide on 11-14-2009 11:21 am
Ningage wrote: You say 'mere fact', as in it is insignificant in the long run, which it really is.
Lots of people have miscarriages, and the best part is it cleans out the ol' egg system so you can have a new baby in 5 to 10 work days.
If I was there I would not wish to have the shit kicked out of me, I would wish to explore Australia and see what the foreign life was like. Can one be kicked so hard that they can defecate? I wish to know this. Might do experiments later. You sure are full of ideas, Aaron.
I'll try kcking you and we'll see if you shit your pants
I bet you fucking wil
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