I dont know what to do...heres what happened


my best friend is loose...if you know what i mean...she has made out with alot of boys and loves to brag about it..well yesterday i went to her house and this boy named Bobby came over too...she wrote on her phone " ask to play truth or dare and then dare him to kiss me " so i did...even though i really love Bobby...not as a lover but as a friend and i knew this was the beginning of his heartbreak, his first heartbreak...well i did and they kissed and i felt so terrible i cut...first time i cut since i got out of treatment...they couldnt see cuz i was wearing long sleeves and it was dark out side though...but then Amber was all over him...i mean he was like " whoa did you just unzipp my pants? " and like hugging him and he kept pushin her away...we went in the house and she sat on his lap facing him with there forhead touching, her legs spread...and i was SO MAD...WHAT IS SHE THINKING?!?! and just now i got done talkin to her on msn...i said "if you break Bobby's heart i will never talk to you ever again" and things like that and i told her that i didnt want to see him hurt...and she got all mad sayin she wasnt a W**** and stuff and i was like okay whatever but jus remember what im sayin...and then i told Bobby that she will break his heart and when he's crying ill be here but i wanted HIM to remember that i warned him...I DONT KNOW IF IM DOING THE RIGHT THING!?!?! i want to protect him...i want to intervine...say something horrible about Amber so they won't go out...then THAT gets me confused...am i jelous?...i dont think so...but i would probably lose alot of warmness for this life if he ended up hurt and broken because of HER...i dont want him to be changed...hardned

I understand what your going through, i had a similar situation a few months ago.

Your doing the right thing by at least talkin to them, and its going to be hard, but just keep talkin to them and everything will be ok.

Just stating my own opinion here, but your friend Amber seems to have some kind of insecurity problem if she is always all over guys. Like, just getting the attention makes her feel better about herself. (that may be it, im guessing)

I wouldn't call her a whore, or a slut, she just needs someone to be there for her and she may just need a friend sooner or later. Just dont get mad and say things you may regret that will only make the situation worse.

As for Bobby, if he wasn't all over her as well, then i wouldn't worry so much about him. He may soon realize wats going on with her and not let it get out of control.

But like i said, just talk to them and try to reason things out.

I hope this helps

okay update

well last night i talked to Bobby...he said that he dosnt want her...at all...but i dont know if hes lying...i mean if he wanted her couldve had her...but jeez i hate being the jealous girl on the side....i feel like a dumby head tearing them apart...am i riight or am i wrong???

when people get jealous, its hard to be able to trust someone. But you have to get past that and be able to trust him when he tells you he doesn't want her