Um...is this weird?

Um...is this weird?

by XDDbunnYukyXDD on 07-21-2008 7:23 pm

I really think I should be a guy I mean i like being a girl and doing girly things and i even like boys but i feel as if im more of a boy on the inside......ok u dont have to ansewer to this i just wanted to say this................ Confused
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by XxSocialRejectxX on 07-21-2008 8:32 pm

Hm, I know a few people who are like you in that way. Your just tomboyish. If you've never heard that term(though I'm sure you have), it means a girl that acts and sometimes thinks like a boy. It's not weird. It's actually quite common. If this was what you had in mind when you made your post I hope this helps.
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by Imxaxfake on 07-21-2008 11:46 pm

do watever u feel is best. im sure ur friends will be all out 4 it

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by Nintendo on 07-22-2008 12:20 am

I'm one of the most tomboyish girls you will ever meet.


I prefer hanging out with guys. Less drama, dude. Although I enjoy being a girl.
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by Lifeless on 07-22-2008 3:39 am

I really dont think its weird..
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by Gasolinerainbows on 07-22-2008 3:55 am

I don't think it's weird either.I've felt like that sometimes even though I am not tomboyish or anything.I do prefer hanging out with guys though, I find them easier to understand.
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by Vanity on 07-22-2008 5:24 am

I sometimes feel this way too O_O
I've never told anyone though.
I mean I act like a guy and I get along a lot better with guys..
I am quite tomboyish..
So you aren't the only one..
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by restlessOK on 07-22-2008 11:34 pm

It’s ok, relax hun
You're 13. You don't have to be a girly-girl. My best friend's mum always tell me that just because I'm not girlish doesn't mean I'm not a young lady. And I agree with her. I mosh. I pick fights. I hate wearing stuff that makes me look really girly. I play soccer and love climbing. So I think you and I are in the same boat, right?
When you are a bit older, and if you continue to feel like this you may be transgender. This is when a person feels like they were born into the wrong body (like, a girl thinking she should have been born into the body of a boy or a boy feeling like he should have been born into the body of a girl). But I don't think you really should feel the need to look into that until you are much older. Right now, your personality is changing a lot. You may or may not grow out of this phase.
Enjoy life. And never worry about being weird. It's the things that you feel might be 'weird' that set you apart from every other person. These things make you individual; they make you who you are. Celebrate them.
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by SplitThought on 07-23-2008 2:51 am

Are you weird, you ask?
We're all weird. It's a matter of perspective. I find Sweet Pickles unnerving.

But no, this isn't weird for someone your age. It's the age of experimentation, the Teen years. Not only for your sexuality (Not that it's in question...), but for faith, ideas, talents, those things. It's okay to do things like this, it's good to stand up for yourself like this. Think about it, if you're like this, no guy's gonna wanna try to piss you off for fear he'll get caught in a never-ending war he'll lose eventually. I know it's the one of the cheesiest lines ever made, but be yourself, more than anything else. That's what matters. There are still people out there who care about you, right? There are still people out there who have never met you, but would most likely love you if they got to know you.

But if you really feel that much like a guy, get a sex change. Just be aware the pieces won't exactly work. And it could take some adaptation. So really, it's not a good route to go down.

Just a thought.
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by emorach on 07-24-2008 1:59 pm

Of course it's not weird, myself personally i'd much rather be a guy, ive always said that, and yes some people have thought i was weird, but at the end of the day its your own opinion, and just what you want to think. x
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by BLiNdFaNaTiC on 07-24-2008 2:25 pm

restlessOK wrote: It’s ok, relax hun
You're 13. You don't have to be a girly-girl. My best friend's mum always tell me that just because I'm not girlish doesn't mean I'm not a young lady. And I agree with her. I mosh. I pick fights. I hate wearing stuff that makes me look really girly. I play soccer and love climbing. So I think you and I are in the same boat, right?
When you are a bit older, and if you continue to feel like this you may be transgender. This is when a person feels like they were born into the wrong body (like, a girl thinking she should have been born into the body of a boy or a boy feeling like he should have been born into the body of a girl). But I don't think you really should feel the need to look into that until you are much older. Right now, your personality is changing a lot. You may or may not grow out of this phase.
Enjoy life. And never worry about being weird. It's the things that you feel might be 'weird' that set you apart from every other person. These things make you individual; they make you who you are. Celebrate them.

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by XBlackRainbowX on 07-24-2008 8:14 pm

I don't think it's weird at all, I'm like that to. I mean yes I like guys, and I do dress girly I guess but sometimes I think like a guy, my mom sometimes says "Your not acting very lady like." and I always came back with "Who says I'm a lady?" I guess I'm just a tomboy. Anyway, sorry I got talking about myself there, I think you should just do what you feel is best Wink

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by Sorademon on 07-24-2008 9:41 pm

omg ifeel almost the same way for the past 3 yrs ive wanted to get a sex change it dosent seem like a big thing to me im just more like a guy and do more guy things but if i was a guy id be gay just cause thats how i am but i might do girls XD
i dun think its weird at all a well i dun think a lot but more people do get sex changes now a days so i dun think its weid but think long and hard about it i still have 3 more yrs till im 18 so if u really want to do it after yrs of thoght do it XD hope this might help
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by xXxemoangelxXx on 07-26-2008 11:36 am

Hey, Do What Ever Makes You Feel Comfortable.
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by sader on 07-26-2008 2:18 pm

is it weird.... sure.

but your impurities make you the way that you are... so embrace it and be crazy.

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