Alright, well im 17, a senior in high school, and ive never been in love.
No one has ever fallen in love with me.
I've had about 6 girlfreinds.
Only 3 i really liked, and the others i was forced to go out with (basically they were reallllly ugly)
But the 3 i liked, all stayed with me for bout a week then they broke up.
Well, 1st off, im a really ugly guy. My style is like scene, but im so ugly in the face that i dont even have a "ugly scene" look.
My face is just weird, and doesn't look good in any style i do.
And doesn't fit anything i do.
One main thing is im a white guy, but I have a really fat nose, and it looks deformed.
Well anyway, Despite all that, im very out-going at school (when i can be cuz not many people like me) but around the friends i have, im very happy and outgoing (i tell close freinds my problems but like i dont mope all the time)
But anyway, i do have alot of freinds who are very hot girls, and are the exact girls that would be my type, because of coarse, they love me for my personality.
trouble is, not a single one of them ever "like" me. I try flirting with girls all the time, especially this one girl i like, and i say really nice things, im not a asshole, and i treat them so nice and do the things other guys have. But none of them will fall for me.
I also have never had sex, any type of it, im still a virgin, and the reaosn most people arent is when girls and guys hang out in houses, things happen even if they arent together, but no girls EVER ask me to hangh out, and even when i ask all my freinds who are girls to hang out, none of them ever do, even if i ask repeatedly.
Its really impossible for me to fall for somoene "uglier" because im so used to being around hotter girls and at least knowing what its like to being around hotter people who know how to have fun.
Because inside, im a very kinky, sexy, out-going, "scene" person.
but on the outside, someone would expect me to go out with the school "fattest girl" because looks-wise i can't get anything better.
And yes, 3 out of 6 of my gfs were realllllllly fat girls.
And honestly, for my personality I NEED someone more attractive cuz those are the only people who fit my personality.
All the ugly people are wayyyy too shy and stuff for me.
Thats why when i get older, im considering plastic surgery because i literally was born with a face that doesn't match at all who i am on the inside, and that causes me not to find anyone to spend my life with.
Cuz no one wants a "outgoing but really ugly guy"....people will settle for "shy hot people" before "outgoing ugly guys"
and since im very sexful, ide have to be with someone who is very sexful too, but who wants to have sex everyday with somoene really ugly?
Ugly couples only have sex when they need a baby.
BUt i need some advice, what can i do to get a hot girl?
Im a skinny guy, its just my face is very jacked up.
And i try to have all the style i can, but it still doesn't work.
I flirt all i can, and ask to hang out with girls all i can
But nothing works.
Is there really any special way to get a attractive girl who's hot on the inside and out if you are just ugly?
or are you doomed to find someone who could never turn you on?
Ugly guy?
i'd say one thing:
don't be that picky with what the girls look like.
and wait until you fall in love.
she might be fat, ugly and shy.
but still the most amazing person you've ever met.
good luck.
don't be that picky with what the girls look like.
and wait until you fall in love.
she might be fat, ugly and shy.
but still the most amazing person you've ever met.
good luck.
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HELLOSHiTTY - I must be imo.
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yeah wat she said the person you come to love might be fat ass ugly with hair in her nose....wait nvm lol still the person you like might be really wierd^.^
hope you find the one and btw...post a pic of yourself...
hope you find the one and btw...post a pic of yourself...
if life is like hell wats there to be afraid of when we die....
and why would i care....
why do they call pineapples....pine...apple...there not apples...nore pine cones?
and why would i care....
why do they call pineapples....pine...apple...there not apples...nore pine cones?
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underdeppressedgoddess - emoXcore
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Hmm...
Well it's good that you at least seem to be a gentleman, and can handle yourself properly around girls. That's a big plus I'd say, because very few girls I've met, if ANY, will tolerate some jackass for very long, no matter how good looking he is.
Just keep being the outgoing, nice self that you are.
Right now at your age, most people are extrememly shallow. Just give it a couple years, and you'll start running into girls that YOU like who like you. Especially if you keep up a good personality.
Don't give up hope.
Well it's good that you at least seem to be a gentleman, and can handle yourself properly around girls. That's a big plus I'd say, because very few girls I've met, if ANY, will tolerate some jackass for very long, no matter how good looking he is.
Just keep being the outgoing, nice self that you are.
Right now at your age, most people are extrememly shallow. Just give it a couple years, and you'll start running into girls that YOU like who like you. Especially if you keep up a good personality.
Don't give up hope.
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Classicfall - the guy with the words
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oh wow first off no worries youll find the rihgt person theres always someone out there for anyone all you have to do is hope and wait...and i agree dont be so picky, that might be a part of the problem. i really hope you find who you want and no worries im sure out there your one true love is out there dying to meet you ^^..i wish you the best of luck and peace ^^
they will always be my happy place but they will also be my sad place...they are my heaven and hell...
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little lion - hXc
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Well....i mean i just dont like ugly girls.
The girl has to have at least a attractive face.
Im good with skinny, and somewhat chubby girls.
Actually a little bit of meat is a turn on for me.
But its just....the girl has to seriously have at least a shaped up body and good face for me to even begin to have a crush on them.
Its not my fault.....
And well thing is, my future career is gonna be singing, i have an amazing voice, and a great song writing talent...
and well i dont plan on getting married till my 40's or so because i plan on messing around with girls untill then. plus touring and such wouldnt let me have a wife.
but in order to even be a singer, and have that sort of life, you basically still need good looks, even if its in a "unique" way.
The girl has to have at least a attractive face.
Im good with skinny, and somewhat chubby girls.
Actually a little bit of meat is a turn on for me.
But its just....the girl has to seriously have at least a shaped up body and good face for me to even begin to have a crush on them.
Its not my fault.....
And well thing is, my future career is gonna be singing, i have an amazing voice, and a great song writing talent...
and well i dont plan on getting married till my 40's or so because i plan on messing around with girls untill then. plus touring and such wouldnt let me have a wife.
but in order to even be a singer, and have that sort of life, you basically still need good looks, even if its in a "unique" way.
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The Black - Fresh Meat
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The Black wrote: Well....i mean i just dont like ugly girls.
The girl has to have at least a attractive face.
Im good with skinny, and somewhat chubby girls.
Actually a little bit of meat is a turn on for me.
But its just....the girl has to seriously have at least a shaped up body and good face for me to even begin to have a crush on them.
Its not my fault.....
And well thing is, my future career is gonna be singing, i have an amazing voice, and a great song writing talent...
and well i dont plan on getting married till my 40's or so because i plan on messing around with girls untill then. plus touring and such wouldnt let me have a wife.
but in order to even be a singer, and have that sort of life, you basically still need good looks, even if its in a "unique" way.
or you can be so ugly your beautiful, like Marilyn Manson... hes just orgasmic

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MetalSuicide - Pull The Trigger Bitch
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[quote="Metal Suicide"]
lol, very true about manson lol
yer, ur story REALLY, REALLLY sounds like me about 1 year ago,
cuz until about september last year,
i had NOOOOOOOO female friends...
now i only have female friends lol
and a couple of male friends that i casually see
it's funny, cuz that only started to happen when this really ugly girl asked me out, i said yes cuz i wanted to see what she was like(i honestly don't give 2 shits about looks)
she was OOOKK, though she tried to turn me off emo,
i was like fuck you...
yer, then i dumped her,
and this girl i used to love(though she broke my heart)
tried to kiss me while i was going out with that ugly girl and i said no,
and me and her have made out a few times, and her best friend and i made out once,
i used to think i was ugly,
but it was just the fact that i was over weight,
i losed a bit of weight(20kg+),
and even before i losed weight, people said i look handsome, more so now,
which is nice i guess,
personally hate my thighs,
my thighs are your nose to me,
everyones always gonna have imperfections,
it takes a special person to look past the imperfections,
looking at it now, not even 6 months ago, i had no female friends,
now i've got a very cute, very attactive blonde girl who thinks i'm handsome(the friend of the girl i loved) and she's holding my hand in her hands while we are sitting at at the train station...and we aren't even going out yet,
we always hug each other,
and again,
not that long ago, i would have killed for a chick to so much as think of me as a friend,
now i've got someone(the girl who broke my heart)
who's crying over me cuz she thinks she's lost me as a bestfriend(which is kind of true), and i've got that blonde girl who i think likes me,
but yer,
you'll get what your looking for,
look at my story,
there's the proof,
i was the biggest loser beginning of '07,
now i'm the shiz' of '08 in my social circle lol,
things will get better
http://www.bebo.com/AlexM099
i got a pic of the blonde girl in my friends album, we got them done at the andy warhol thing in brisbane, australia(ns, i live there)
yer, and obviously there are pics of me, weither it be my album art or other random stuff,
so yer
The Black wrote: or you can be so ugly your beautiful, like Marilyn Manson... hes just orgasmic
lol, very true about manson lol
yer, ur story REALLY, REALLLY sounds like me about 1 year ago,
cuz until about september last year,
i had NOOOOOOOO female friends...
now i only have female friends lol
and a couple of male friends that i casually see
it's funny, cuz that only started to happen when this really ugly girl asked me out, i said yes cuz i wanted to see what she was like(i honestly don't give 2 shits about looks)
she was OOOKK, though she tried to turn me off emo,
i was like fuck you...
yer, then i dumped her,
and this girl i used to love(though she broke my heart)
tried to kiss me while i was going out with that ugly girl and i said no,
and me and her have made out a few times, and her best friend and i made out once,
i used to think i was ugly,
but it was just the fact that i was over weight,
i losed a bit of weight(20kg+),
and even before i losed weight, people said i look handsome, more so now,
which is nice i guess,
personally hate my thighs,
my thighs are your nose to me,
everyones always gonna have imperfections,
it takes a special person to look past the imperfections,
looking at it now, not even 6 months ago, i had no female friends,
now i've got a very cute, very attactive blonde girl who thinks i'm handsome(the friend of the girl i loved) and she's holding my hand in her hands while we are sitting at at the train station...and we aren't even going out yet,
we always hug each other,
and again,
not that long ago, i would have killed for a chick to so much as think of me as a friend,
now i've got someone(the girl who broke my heart)
who's crying over me cuz she thinks she's lost me as a bestfriend(which is kind of true), and i've got that blonde girl who i think likes me,
but yer,
you'll get what your looking for,
look at my story,
there's the proof,
i was the biggest loser beginning of '07,
now i'm the shiz' of '08 in my social circle lol,
things will get better
http://www.bebo.com/AlexM099
i got a pic of the blonde girl in my friends album, we got them done at the andy warhol thing in brisbane, australia(ns, i live there)
yer, and obviously there are pics of me, weither it be my album art or other random stuff,
so yer

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ametc1 - Still a Poser
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ametc1 - Still a Poser
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HELLOSHiTTY wrote: i'd say one thing:
don't be that picky with what the girls look like.
and wait until you fall in love.
she might be fat, ugly and shy.
but still the most amazing person you've ever met.
good luck.
Jup ; erhm , you're right.
It doesn't matter how she looks ( well ; maybe a little bit it does xD *
But it matters how her personality is like. *UHUM*
Omg ; I'm boring like hell Ö muah x)
Much luck ^^
<3
Bittersweat Heartbeats.
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supajensen - hXc
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....hes an ass a shallow ass grls are better than there looks like there personality...god i would hate to be your girlfriend
directed @black
directed @black
if life is like hell wats there to be afraid of when we die....
and why would i care....
why do they call pineapples....pine...apple...there not apples...nore pine cones?
and why would i care....
why do they call pineapples....pine...apple...there not apples...nore pine cones?
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underdeppressedgoddess - emoXcore
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O my I never new guys were like that I don't get it ok girls can go out with fat ugly guys and fall for them but y is it so hard for guys to fall for fat i actually mean fat like 160 or more and ugly girls I mean come on I bet the reason guys don't like those type of girls is cause there so stuck in society its annoying I think you should stop thinking wat your friends opinions are or any one else's like come on actually get to know the girl for who she is you think its easy and that all girls should be perfect well half of them arnt ok so maybe guys should learn that love is not the way you look but the way you feel black guy or whatever stop choosing who you love actually hang out with fat or ugly girls and give them a chance it seems to me like you are choosing who you like...
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caitlin100percent - Still a Poser
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Personally, I respect you for being able to come out and say that honestly, Topic Creator. That takes balls. Very big, juicy, sometimes grainy balls. As for anything else, I got nothing, our unit had quite a night last night.
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