Too clingy!

My 11 year old sister is so clingy. She spends all her time in my room and dumps her stuff there so i just chuck it back in her room. I'm forever telling her to get out but i feel bad because she fucking guilt trips me. She always follows me around the house. It's so bloody annoying. And lately i've nicked some of my paren'ts alcohol in the evenings but she follows me into the kitchen, today she caught me with a bottle of gin and i said i was practising using a bottle opener. How do i get her to stay away? because she will just follow me anyway!!

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ye i used to have this problem and its because she looks up to you because you are her big sister, i mean it may not be with everyone but in your case that seems to be why. she will grow out of it, maybe not as soon as you would like, but try getting your parents to talk to her, maybe then she will listen, but seriously do spend some time with her so that she doesnt resent you for it later, that has happened to me and now my sis brings it up everytime we fight, but also let her know that you need her space.
but ye try using your parents to tell her

Dude, sisters are seriously clingy till they hit... 13 or 14.
Lock your door? Dont take the booze till later on in the night?

rockitemokid wrote: Dont take the booze till later on in the night?

Don't take the booze at all. You're a kid, you can't handle alcohol and it'll most probably damage your brain (if there's any of it).

Slap her.
In the fucking face.

That'll teach her to not get emotionally attached to ANYONE.
EVER.
AGAIN.

Ningage wrote: Slap her.
In the fucking face.

That'll teach her to not get emotionally attached to ANYONE.
EVER.
AGAIN.

Thats one way to solve a problem

She looks up to you, what do you expect. At that age, she wants to be like you.
Little sisters are like that. There isn't much you can do. Locking your door maybe? I wouldn't be drinking either but hey, to each their own.

My sister and I used to be best friends, now I kicked her out of my life almost entirely and I have no one on my side in my family. Trust me, they come in handy for backup, use them to your advantage. But keep them in line so they're tolerable. If they like you, they will most likely listen to you.
I taught my sister to only speak to me when spoken too and cover for my lies. It takes time, but it's so worth it.

Also, are you stealing alcohol to drink by yourself...? At your age, that shouldn't be happening, trust me. And you shouldn't take from your parents, whole bottles anyways, they'll easily notice. If you're that stupid then you don't need any alcohol brain damage anyways.

Lil sisters are like that. Spend time with her but when you wanna be alone tell her so. If she dosen't listen pick her up and remove her. If you can't, say stuff that scares her. Around 11 girls don't really like the period talk so maybe that will frighten her off.

Gin will make your tits fall off.
(Quit drinking.)