this is a bit confusing

so, i have this ex, and even though i dont want to like her still, for some reason i do. shes hurt me and a couple of my friends, and i know its stupid of me to still want her... and its confusing as hell.
she even came over to my house not long ago and we ended up in my bed, but it felt right, which just confuses me even more.
i really dont know how to handle this cause i only have like one real friend, and he cant stand her, and i cant stop talking to her without feeling like a total ass.

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It's normal to have mixed feelings after a relationship ends
You can't orce yourself out of love
But your friend should respect the bond you two have
No matter how much he dislikes her, he should get over it if he wanted you to be happy

It all depends on what your ex wants aswell

Stop talking to her if you want to stop talking to her.
If you don't, don't.
Simple math.

@rockite
thing is, whenever i dont talk to her, i feel like such an ass and i cant stand it.

@metal
its been since june that we broke up.. and its just started getting like this.

NeoWing wrote:

@metal
its been since june that we broke up.. and its just started getting like this.

If she want's it aswell, go for your life
But go SLOW, and keep your guard up
Don't make the same mistakes as before

i only have one question for you do you have STRONG feelings for her?

Also; do you like her, or do you like the idea of her?
The saftey and happiness you get from being in a relationship sometimes makes you want that, and confuse the feelings as love for someone else
In a simpler form, do you want her, or do you miss what you had?

did you to get INTAMIT or do anything if so that could be what you are missing