theres this guy right and hes also one of my best friends. me and his girlfriend could be almost twins, thats why i think he hangs out with me so much. his girlfriend dosnt go to our school so i think he get comfort from me cause i look like his girlfriend. and he gives me long hugs like 3 or 4 times a day, it seems that he might really like me. but thing is my friend asked him if he would ever break up with his girlfriend for me and he said maybe but she was really hardcore emo and hes scared she going to cut herself or commit suicide. they been going out for almost 2 year and sometime he complain about her not letting him hang with me and some other people. he dosent seem happy but if he wasnt wouldnt he break up with her.

Should i just stay out of the picture, so she wont get all worked up about him hugging me and hanging out? but i do think i love him.

XxMinedWeaverxX wrote: Weird.

Dude, don't push him. If he really wants you then he'll have you.

Not only that, but he hangs out with you because he likes too. It probably has nothing to do with you looking like her.

I would not try and push her away, and I would not try and pull him to you. Just let it kinda do it's own thing.

yea i understand
but its just i waited like half a year to even get
noticed by him and then we linked
its just really heart breaking.

and thanks for the advice

Dont go for him unless ure 100% sure he wants to be with you.

XxTooSweetxX wrote: Dont go for him unless ure 100% sure he wants to be with you.

well things like that are hard to know.
he gives me lots hugs will stand in the lunch line with me when hes not even buy anything, calls be on the phone, ect.
but like i dont no if i should move on cause he still has a girlfriend.

NewKid wrote: It sounds more like a strong friendship then an intimate one. I would just let things take its course like XxMinedWeaverxX said.

but he asks me to concerts and
hugs me real long and tight and
i have lots of friends that are
guys but dont hug me 3 or 4 times
a day.
idk i'm really confused

NewKid wrote: Hugs dont mean everything hun...i hug all my friends like 4 times a day but have no intention of going out with any of them.

but how old are you?
cause like in 8th grade thats
what people do to show u
that they are interested
and they arent like small quick hugs
they are long tight ones.
and i dont want to seem like i'm in denial but
i really think he likes me but its just hes scared
about his girlfriend cutting.

NewKid wrote: Only 20, but then again we just tell each other if we like one another, we dont use hints and motions. I hug my friends to, short and long hugs. I guess the signals are confusing at a young age. Honestly, dont do anything with him. You dont have the problem. If he likes you, he will dump his gf, if not then he wont. And if he cheats, well what do you think he will do to you if he ends up going out with you. Your thinking too much into the hug. If he likes you he will tell you. Be friends and only friends till HE HIMSELF, figures out what HE wants. Dont give him ideas, it could just make things worse.

okay
thanks.

i understand you and i alsow did the same thing as you but don't think that he like like you allready...just wait a little time and still doing things with him maby you cant see than who he's likes the most
and if he realy like's you than he say's that to you


anyway i hope so

Emotje wrote: i understand you and i alsow did the same thing as you but don't think that he like like you allready...just wait a little time and still doing things with him maby you cant see than who he's likes the most
and if he realy like's you than he say's that to you


anyway i hope so

thanks.