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What is your orientation?

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by rockitemokid on 04-27-2008 2:41 pm

I don't really know what my orientation is...
Guys totally turn me on, but every once in a while i get turned on by a chick..... It's so weird... I can't picture myself with a girl, I picture myself with a guy.
Hm.... Here's an example:
When I look at a guy, the first priority is to decide if he's hot or not, Then I talk to him to see what kind of personality he has..
When I look a girl, I want to see what she's like, then I decide if I like the way she looks....
I dunno... I can't imagine kissing a girl/ being with a girl... But all the same... I dunno I'm confuzzled.... Question

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by Nintendo on 04-27-2008 3:16 pm

Straight.
What will it take for you to understand?
This is something the doctors just can't fix.

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by JustPopEnrage on 04-27-2008 11:03 pm

1) Be sure. Be absolutely sure that what you're about to say you mean. You can just "Lol, j/k mom!" the next day. You have to be confident and firm in your answers.

2) Be prepared. Your parents are probably going to want to talk extensively with you on this issue. Be ready to answer their questions. Be confident. Be open to having a two way conversation. Don't get in a huff when they "don't understand you" right away. This is big for them.

3) Be patient. It might take some time for your parents to adjust to what you're telling them. It's hard for your parents to try and reinvision what your life is going to be like.

4) You probably should not introduce them to your boyfriend right away. Your parents are probably going to try and blame this on something. They might blame it on your friend. Don't be upset with them, just recognize that this is hard for them. Probably harder on them than it is on you.

See step 1 again.
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by MrTony on 04-28-2008 2:42 am

I like myself
but ill play with girls and boys too
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by xXfallenangelXXX82394xX on 04-28-2008 2:52 am

crow black dream wrote: my sexuality changes like the wind.

one day im gay,
im stright the next.

really id say im bi

im not classed as anything yet cos im too young to have sex.

i have a GF at the moment, but ive had crushes on both genders. Im 60% gay, 40% str8.
i kno what kissing a boy feels like lol Very Happy


im kinda like that but like 89% straight and 11% gay, but im also really young.

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by LosingMyselfInYourEyes190 on 04-28-2008 8:31 am

ok for me:
i'm bisexual and i accept that.
the thing is that no one i know will understand me at all if i come out
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by Academyofliars on 04-28-2008 4:02 pm

JustPopEnrage wrote: 1) Be sure. Be absolutely sure that what you're about to say you mean. You can just "Lol, j/k mom!" the next day. You have to be confident and firm in your answers.

2) Be prepared. Your parents are probably going to want to talk extensively with you on this issue. Be ready to answer their questions. Be confident. Be open to having a two way conversation. Don't get in a huff when they "don't understand you" right away. This is big for them.

3) Be patient. It might take some time for your parents to adjust to what you're telling them. It's hard for your parents to try and reinvision what your life is going to be like.

4) You probably should not introduce them to your boyfriend right away. Your parents are probably going to try and blame this on something. They might blame it on your friend. Don't be upset with them, just recognize that this is hard for them. Probably harder on them than it is on you.

See step 1 again.


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by plur49 on 04-28-2008 6:06 pm

YAY!!! i love this thread. finally a solid thread for this!!!!

i'm a lesbian.

YAY!!!!

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by emokid000005 on 04-29-2008 5:51 am

I'm bi. Sometimes I picture myself with a guy, sometimes with girl. It's so confusing.
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by Academyofliars on 04-29-2008 4:08 pm

Life is confusing.
Hmmm...I don't actually know, but I'm a assuming I like guys.

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by Eternity on 04-29-2008 10:55 pm

Parents these days...-.-
Good luck though.

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by emokid000005 on 04-30-2008 12:04 am

TreverCutingham wrote: ..... idk maybe its best to keep it to ur self...... i preaty much do that. but im not sure if im bi or not yet sooo... yeah i think it would b best to kep it to urself........ unless u really wont them to know. then i would sugest catching them on a good day and pop little clues till they kinda get it then just go out and say it.


I'm bi too. And if I will have a boyfriend I will just keep it to myself. My parents would be really disappointed.
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by LaDiiMorphine on 04-30-2008 5:35 pm

ok...well when i was little my babysitters neice use to touch me and make me do stuff with her and i was 4 yrs younger than her...but she use to make another girl(ashley) do the same..but now we're all best friends and she doesnt do anything bisexul...but me and ashley are kinda still into that stuff....but i dont want to be bisexual...i mean its like ok sometime but i feel like i always have to hide because of it....the last time i actually even kissed a girl was in april of 07...so basically its been like a year...sometimes i want to be bi but i dont...
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by mcr666 on 05-01-2008 12:47 pm

I think i just want to be loved, period.
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by xFxckLovex on 05-01-2008 1:12 pm

I'm straight. But lately I'm not too sure. I'm pretty sure I'm straight, but sometimes I think I might be attracted to girls, too. Maybe they're just minor little girl crushes that mean nothing....


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