The Guide: How To STOP Being Ana/Mia (Anorexic/Bulimic)

by **<3BleedingHarts<3** on 06-01-2008 12:01 am

by **<3BleedingHarts<3** on 06-01-2008 12:02 am

mydisguise wrote: <3BleedingHarts<3:
lolll i am SO not good with kilograms, i was like 'ZOMG thats light' then i went and weighed myself and i'm 54 but i'm not as tall as you either hm. anyways. hmmmm that sounds like it was a hard time. but you do know now that feeling ugly and fat was wrong and definitely not true, right? and that really you were healthy and the right weight for your height.. so now the only thing holding you back from stopping is that it's become a habit and even an addiction. well you say that it's too late for you now and you're stuck too deep, but you can still do it. If its 'just' a habit/addiction, then do what everyone does with bad habits, which is slowly wean yourself off them. in your case, i guess that'd mean trying to throw up less regularly, and slowly start to eat a bit more each day. And never do that thing where you binge eat, coz that'll put everything back to the start and you wont eat for ages, which is bad. you know you'll have to get rid of the habit eventually, you can't live your whole life this way, with the awful feelings coming and going, of the guilt of lying, of the guilt and shame of binge eating, and all the crappy emotions that come with bulimia.

i know i was a good weight for my height but now it has deffinately become out of controll and having the stress of exams in 3 days isnt helping. im trying really hard but its not working atm.
im going back to school the day b4 my exams for some last minute help and one of my teachers is really nice so i think i might talk to her about it and see if she can help me

thanks for all your support and advice

xxx

by **mydisguise** on 06-01-2008 8:24 am

hmm well for now maybe it's best just to keep it in check, and concentrate on your exams. you can try harder at fixing it after your exams are done =]
Very Happy

it's really good that you have a nice teacher that you can talk to. i really hope she is able to help you =]
np, and i wish you the best of luck in your exams, and in breaking the habit =]

xox

Edit:YAY!!!! I GOT KARMA!!! Very Happy

yayyyyyy thank you <3bleedinharts<3 you're lovely Smile

by **emoLoveletters** on 06-21-2008 3:28 pm

hey. my ex gf was bulemic and....yea i broke up with her as soon as i heard that...then she....well it got wayyy worse.... Crying or Very sad

by **<3BleedingHarts<3** on 06-22-2008 4:44 am

emoLoveletters wrote: hey. my ex gf was bulemic and....yea i broke up with her as soon as i heard that...then she....well it got wayyy worse....

your mean and u cant spell

by **mydisguise** on 06-24-2008 12:36 pm

emoLoveletters wrote: hey. my ex gf was bulemic and....yea i broke up with her as soon as i heard that...then she....well it got wayyy worse....

hmmm you're not mean but you did things kinda wrong... but you know that now, right? well maybe you could try to be there for her and help her get rid of her bulimia.
but it's probs not a good idea to be there for her if you really don't want to get back with her, coz if she still feels something for you and then she thinks since your being nice means you do too, then she tries something and you reject her, that'll make her feel even worse...
but if it was me i'd be willing to get back with my ex, i'd want to try to heal the wound that i helped make.

by **xXInsideOutXx** on 06-24-2008 2:13 pm

<3BleedingHarts<3 wrote:
emoLoveletters wrote: hey. my ex gf was bulemic and....yea i broke up with her as soon as i heard that...then she....well it got wayyy worse....

your mean and u cant spell

You're not mean, but you shouldn't have broken up with her because she has an eating disorder. Aren't boyfriends supposed to help their girlfriends with their problems, not dump them over them? You should try to get her some help. Even now, if you care about her at all, she needs help, whether or not it's from her ex.

by **PunkRockPrincess4Life** on 6 Days ago at 7:05 pm

Oh my god. That shit is so gross.
I was bulimic AND anorexic for almost three years.
I did a lot of what you mentioned.
The weird thing was I was never an everyday anerexic or bulmic I guess you could say because I did a lot of fasting and never a lot of binging so I either stayed the same weight or lost a few pounds here or there. I got help and am doing soo much better but it was so hard to stop.
I remember when I gained like 2 pounds and I was like "AHHH 2 pounds! Now im a fat cow! Im never eating anything the rest of the week, stupid fucking scale."
I didnt get my way though I had to eat more that whole week.
But I was luckey because I stayed the same or only lost a few pounds I didnt look like what was in the pictures and I didnt suffer any of the aftermath really. (if that makes sense.)

The Guide: How To STOP Being Ana/Mia (Anorexic/Bulimic)

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