Sorts of Issues

Sorts of Issues

by BLiNdFaNaTiC on 05-10-2008 4:10 pm

okay i finally like someone, and he kinda likes me back, now i have neve ever had a boyfriend. So..im new to this dating thing.
I have a best friend whoes a guy, and he practically understand everything i say and hes supportive too.
So i told him about this guy i like and how he likes me back
and suddenly he flips out and i've never seen him do that before
he says "do you know that well? is he obsessesed with you? does he only check out your body? are you sure you like him? you sure hes not in a gang or anything?"
that got me irratated,cause i had no idea why he was flipping out on me about this guy when he already likes someone else.
so i told him to calm down. and he flips out again, and says he has to leave. After that he wouldnt talk to me for some reason.
and when i was talking to the guy i like he got all mad, and when ever i would talk to him he would ignore me.
i dont know what the problem is, he likes someone else.
he gets in a fuss about who i like, and hes ignoring me,

any adivce to fix this problem? please? i dont wanna be ignored by my best friend since 2nd grade

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by deanna2995 on 05-10-2008 4:18 pm

1) don't be so sure he does't like you. people can like a lot of people at once. especially if he knows you as well as you say.

2) he's your best friend! he wants to protect you! he doesn't want some guy to just go out with you because he thinks you're hot. he doesn't want you to get hurt. especially since he knows you have never gone out with anyone he wants to make sure that you don't get hurt.
and if he DOES like you, that's just another reason to try to protect you. if he does, he might be afraid that it will ruin your friendship if you two go out and just wants you to be safe. a guy can't help but be a little jealous Wink

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by iloveacorn on 05-10-2008 4:47 pm

I'm with the other person he sounds a bit jealous and don't want you to get hurt. I'd kick some ones ass over hurting one my friends
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by casperONFIRE on 05-10-2008 7:07 pm

He sounds jealous, maybe he was just saying he likes the other person to cover for the fact that he likes you?
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by hayzee007 on 05-10-2008 7:12 pm

aww he likes you :] thats cute

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by BLiNdFaNaTiC on 05-12-2008 3:16 pm

okay so today i was hanging out with my best friend (whoes ignoring me)
and at the end of the day the conversation went like this
Him: "listen dia i like someone, but i cant tell her"
Me: "who?"
Him: " i cant tell you that shes in this class though"
Me: any more hints?
Him: "well shes friends with my other friends too"
Me: so ask her out already
Him: " i cant she likes someone else, and i dont wanna get rejected, i dont know i really like her"
Me: So when are you planning to ask her out?
Him: "tommorow or thursday"
and then hes like i gotta go and he hugs me and leave

i think he does like me cause im friends with his friends and im in every one of his classes. i dont know though

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by TooSweet on 05-12-2008 4:29 pm

Alright.

Either

A) Your friend is like an older brother to you, so it is natural for him to feel a bit overprotective of you.

B) He has a enormous crush on you and you have failed to notice somehow

Or

C) He somehow already knows that the boy you are interested is bad news and you should stay away.

As for what you can do, youo could either sit him down and have a nice long chat about this, or you can ignore him.

A strongly suggest you do not choose the latter.
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by oisin Emo on 05-13-2008 12:40 pm

i think he likes you
just talk to him
ask him
if he does he's probly really nervous
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