Should a gay couple be allowed to adopt??

But there are a lot of people with single parents... Does that mean they get it worse off than with two straight parents?

Lot of people are fine with only one gender raising them. You'd think two people, even with the same gender, would be even better.

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XtorchicX wrote:

Joli Petit Canard wrote:

and you said that children are not going to have good family values ? Do you think a non wanted child that have heterosexual parents are going to have better values than one that their parents had to go trought a shitload of things to have them ?

i dont think I understand what your last paragraph states, can you explain it in a different terminolgoy for me please?

(hopefully that wasn't confusing, my pc is being extreamly retarded at the moment)

You said that a child with gay parents wouldn't have good family values. But gay couples have to go trought a lot to have their kid. It's not just something that happen like straight parents. So you are sure that the kid is wanted and that parents are going to take care of it. So in my opinion just by that it's better familly value than just a couple who forgot to put a condom and oops! they have a baby.

So you're just saying that the best kind of family is the family that breaks no social norms, Torchic? Simply because you don't have what's considered a 'masculine' AND 'feminine' side?

Who says you need those? Simply because they're a part of the social norm does not make them significant or necessary in any fashion.

XtorchicX wrote:

Ningage wrote:

XtorchicX wrote: I have nothing against Gay people, but i believe that it takes the characteristics of two different genders to raise a child. I dont think our childrens generation would have the full potental of family values if it was possible to adopt if you had a partner of the same gender.

(please dont come yelling to me of my opinion.)



because i will shank you in the face..

Proof. Provide some that gay parents raising children is harmful to the well-being of a child.

I never said it would be harmful , and I never said anything about the well-being of children.
I knew when i saw you on this post that i shouln't post anything because your amazing at harassing my opinions.



I just believe that it takes male and a female charateristics to raise and nurture a child.

Even so, that doesn't help you any. Kids have plenty of males and females in their life, whether they're their parent or not.

XtorchicX wrote: I NEVER SAID I DONT LIKE SINGLE PARENTS!?!?!

i am talking about gay COUPLES... and how they differ from a straight COUPLES
(im tring to stay on topic before EB users bite my head off....)

you're fine with single parents, but dont like gay parents?
whats the difference between a straight single parent and a gay single parent?

Ningage wrote: So you're just saying that the best kind of family is the family that breaks no social norms, Torchic? Simply because you don't have what's considered a 'masculine' AND 'feminine' side?

Who says you need those? Simply because they're a part of the social norm does not make them significant or necessary in any fashion.

I see where I confused people in this topic, I never thought of it the ways you guys are stating it. It's a topic that I didn't put much thought in before I stated my mind. I didn't mean to make it sound that all straight parents are fuctional, because some arn't. and I can see where people saying if a gay couple are fighting to adopt a child it would be better for the kid. it makes a lot sence thinking about it.

But most kids arn't made mistakes, there are just some unlucky children that are just a
"poped condom, oops a baby" situation. but every Situation in a family or partnership is different so it differs on how that child would be raised.

Really thinking about it, it's good either way I supose. [I changed my mind]

KittensKill wrote:

XtorchicX wrote: I NEVER SAID I DONT LIKE SINGLE PARENTS!?!?!

i am talking about gay COUPLES... and how they differ from a straight COUPLES
(im tring to stay on topic before EB users bite my head off....)

you're fine with single parents, but dont like gay parents?
whats the difference between a straight single parent and a gay single parent?

Im not saying i dont like gay parents nor a gay single parent.
( remember, im basicly raised by gay parents)

how did we get to talking about single parents?...
and to answer your question i dont think there is a difference just one is gay and one is straight..

XtorchicX wrote: how did we get to talking about single parents?...
and to answer your question i dont think there is a difference just one is gay and one is straight..

so theres no difference between gay and straight parents?

im fine with gay couples adopting, but it does sometimes change the kid

ex- mom, 4 daughters, 1 son (no father, no male influence around the house) [i know its not a gay couple but still] the one son is i think in 6th grade.... and hes the most obnoxious little shit in the world... he calls me emo 8 and anyone else who looks 'emo'... now i believe he is like this because he hasnt had a male influence around.

im just saying though

advicesim wrote: he calls me emo 8 and anyone else who looks 'emo'... now i believe he is like this because he hasnt had a male influence around.

im just saying though

So, what you're saying is, he calls people who look "emo", "emo", and he does this because he hasn't had any male influence?

advicesim wrote: now i believe he is like this because he hasnt had a male influence around.

ever though that he might be like it due to bad parenting?

I know a lot of people raised by single parents and they turned out fine, and i also know a lot who are total shitheads
And i've also know the same for people raised by two parents.
some people just arent meant to have kids

As long as there's a seme and an unke, it's fine by me

KittensKill wrote:

advicesim wrote: now i believe he is like this because he hasnt had a male influence around.

ever though that he might be like it due to bad parenting?

I know a lot of people raised by single parents and they turned out fine, and i also know a lot who are total shitheads
And i've also know the same for people raised by two parents.
some people just arent meant to have kids

i know what your saying but he has 4 sisters who are just fine... there not obnoxious or annoying like he is

You haven't said any reason why lacking a male influence in the house has contributed to his behavior. Nothing you described sounds out of the ordinary.

Strawberry Switchblade wrote: You haven't said any reason why lacking a male influence in the house has contributed to his behavior. Nothing you described sounds out of the ordinary.

if youd met him...... you would understand