Sex Thread 2 - Q & A

Strawberry Switchblade wrote:

Blythe wrote:

MelodyOfMalice wrote:
Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

It's not really -wrong- per say, but I mean, >.> you might be leading yourself into an addiction of some sorts. I would try masturbating without the porn for a while, just to see if you could do it. Use your imagination!

I personally don't think so much an addiction could form, though it's possible, as her method of reachin orgasm may end up boxing her in. She might end up only being able to orgasm from a certain method, which sucks to undo (been there) in order to have O's with a partner.

Yeah I've been there too. Didn't think to apply that to this though. Dunno why. I got so used to having an orgasm through reading erotica, that in all my 19 years I had never been able to have an orgasm through oral, or having a guy use his hands. My boyfriend worked with me on that though and finally fixed me this weekend. >.> Yay me. I'm not broken anymore. Although I'd like to work on the fact that I also can't orgasm unless I'm ontop. F word.

But yeah, that's another thing to be cautious about.

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Rella: Before you two have sex, get tested. if you're both in the clear, then the pill, or something like Implanon should be fine. I was on the pill with my ex, never got pregnant.

Melody: It's not wrong to watch lots of porn or masturbate alot. it's normal when you're horny.

NB: Bladder infections from sex are usually before of the guy not getting the write hole right away, if he puts it around the sphincter first, then it could carry germs that could cause a bladder infection.
I agree, tell them to have good hygiene.

I don't agree with the withdrawal method at all, you'll be lucky not to get pregnant with it, I don't like it actually being recommended on this thread.
But, if you do do it, make sure it's with someone you trust explicitly, and cares more about your relationship and your body than him getting off.
Also, if you're going to use the withdrawal method, make sure the male has urinated at least three times before each orgasm, so the chance of there being actual semen in pre-cum is greatly lessened.
Again I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS METHOD

Strawberry Switchblade wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Not normal, but not abnormal either. You may have the same issues, and bladder infections are very, very owwie, so a condom might be your only bet. Pee before and after sex as well. Make sure your partner not only has good cleanliness habits (double that if he's uncircumcised) but make sure he scrubs his pubic hair too.

Question: does your mother and aunt have sensitive skin?

I think my mom has sensitive skin, not sure about my aunt though.

Narcotic Bliss wrote:

Strawberry Switchblade wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Not normal, but not abnormal either. You may have the same issues, and bladder infections are very, very owwie, so a condom might be your only bet. Pee before and after sex as well. Make sure your partner not only has good cleanliness habits (double that if he's uncircumcised) but make sure he scrubs his pubic hair too.

Question: does your mother and aunt have sensitive skin?

I think my mom has sensitive skin, not sure about my aunt though.

I was thinking that if sensitive skin is a factor, the irritation of delicate skin can contribute to an infection.

I haven't masturbated in a really long time, and I haven't been feeling horny at all...
But when I am horny, and my boyfriend and I are doing things I can't exactly feel anything, I can't feel the orgasm coming, it's like we start, and then I orgasm, and then I feel like I'm going to pass out, but I don't feel like anything, like I just orgasm, with no feeling, and then go to sleep.
I'm sorry if that made no sense... If you do understand it... Is that normal?

I'm wondering about oral sex between women like if there both clean and not sleeping around what can be the cause of a std?

InvisibleFreak wrote: I'm wondering about oral sex between women like if there both clean and not sleeping around what can be the cause of a std?

Well, you have herpes to think of. If one has a cold sore, or is in the process of an outbreak, it is very possible that the giver will pass the virus to the receiver.
Other than that, it's not a huge risk of anything over than the slight possibility of a UTI, which is absurdly common and is easily cleared up with antibiotics.

I know what you're going through Melody. I've been like that for a long time, and to be honest it's sort of depressing me. I'm getting really serious. Like I masturbate so much sometimes I hurt my clit.

But aaaaaanyways. I want some opinions on exactly how far I've gone. My boyfriend and I were kissing, not pecks, but not with our tongue's down eachothers throats. We were cuddling/on top of eachother too. And he'd cup my boob sometimes, and had his knee in my crouch, which sounds weird, but felt AMAZING. Especially since I was really wet. We were both really horny since he had a boner too. But we didn't do anything with that. The height of it was he was squeezing me together between his knees and playing with the top of my pants.

Is that second base? I'm not sure, because technically we haven't even made out yet. Unless that's what you consider making out...

We both reeeeaaally like eachother, but I don't want to get caught up in the moment and do anything stupid before I'm ready.

What is a yeast infection?

What is a vaginal yeast infection?

A vaginal yeast infection is irritation of the vagina and the area around it called the vulva (vul-vuh).

Yeast is a type of fungus. Yeast infections are caused by overgrowth of the fungus Candida albicans. Small amounts of yeast are always in the vagina. But when too much yeast grows, you can get an infection.

Yeast infections are very common. About 75 percent of women have one during their lives. And almost half of women have two or more vaginal yeast infections.

What are the signs of a vaginal yeast infection?

The most common symptom of a yeast infection is extreme itchiness in and around the vagina.
Other symptoms include:

* burning, redness, and swelling of the vagina and the vulva
* pain when passing urine
* pain during sex
* soreness
* a thick, white vaginal discharge that looks like cottage cheese and does not have a bad smell
* a rash on the vagina

You may only have a few of these symptoms. They may be mild or severe.

I've had a yeast infection once, and it stemmed off of hurting myself down there. I looked up causes and it said vigorous sex. I felt like a freak.

But really, they're not that big of a deal. You can get the medicine at the drugstore easily and if you get the medicine it's sorta just like a different kind of period for a day or two.

Snow: Yes, I'd call that second base. It's natural for it to feel really good, sometimes it's that kind of foreplay that's the best. French kissing is making out.
Explain to him you're not ready before you two get really horny. And yeah, I think 14 is a bit too young for really sexual things, you're not emotionally ready at that age.
Just repeat to yourself "I'm not ready" when you start to get horny, so you'll have more control over yourself.

Rella: Do you know what thrush is?

wrote: Simply put, the vaginal yeast infection is the irritation of the vulva and the vagina. The underlying cause of this infection is the overgrowth of the yeast or fungus Candida. Although this fungus is normally found only within the vaginal area, an overgrowth can cause potential harm.

Statistically speaking, vaginal yeast infection occurs very commonly. Of all the women throughout the world, around 75 percent of them are infected with this.

http://www.healthnetwork.com.au/women/vaginal-yeast-infections.asp

Rella wrote: What is a yeast infection?

something relatively common for women, i believe
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candidiasis

SnowXwhite wrote: I looked up causes and it said vigorous sex. I felt like a freak.

Or too much sugar or bread.
Don't feel like a freak, they're very normal.

Girls; Does size really matter?

And; Anyone have any tips for lasting longer? Say if they wanted something extremely intimate, but all you can think about is finishing. The whole picture thing really just doesn't do it for me.

MC Mozz wrote: Girls; Does size really matter?

And; Anyone have any tips for lasting longer? Say if they wanted something extremely intimate, but all you can think about is finishing. The whole picture thing really just doesn't do it for me.

Quality, not quantity. It's true.

The only thing I've heard about lasting longer is think about something unrelated.