Relationships and Texting.

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by Emery on 11-19-2009 10:24 pm

HxC FiALURE wrote: I wouldn't care. The only person that texts me is my mom, and sometimes my cousin.
I don't have anything to hide, sooo.

i'd text you :]

i've ℓooked through my exes
phone before - she didn't care.
but i made sure that i never
even saw who was texting her
when her phone lit up,i just
gave it to her.
another ex used to ℓook
through my phone but
i don't reaℓℓy text anyone
anymore so there was
nothing to discover :]

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by SnowXwhite on 11-19-2009 10:26 pm

I wouldn't care, because I don't text. Plus, even if I did... I wouldn't care.

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by treeceydoll on 11-20-2009 2:00 am

I understand why some of you wouldn't care, because you feel you have nothing to hide. But does it not tie down to a matter of trust and respect? It's like they would be suspicious of you all the time. How is that a healthy relationship?

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by KittensKill on 11-20-2009 2:37 am

treeceydoll wrote: But does it not tie down to a matter of trust and respect? It's like they would be suspicious of you all the time. How is that a healthy relationship?

exactly.
imagine if you were planning a surprise party for them?
wanting the occasional secret is normal
everyone has a right to some privacy

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RE: Relationships and Texting.

by Roylance on 11-20-2009 4:38 am

It's very fucking rude.

It's like someone reading your mail or PMs

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by Matt on 11-20-2009 9:39 am

Another thing I hate is when they text you allllll the time and get angry if you don't reply.

If I'm out somewhere and doing whatever, I can't be just textin' textin' textin'.

And besides, if you were to for example see them after you were out all day, you couldn't really have conversation about what you did that day because you'd already been texting about it aaalll day.

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by Raikudemon on 11-20-2009 10:48 am

I despise cellphones, so I don't text. But, if I did have a phone and I would text; it wouldn't bother me at all if he read my messages before passing me my cell.

I don't know, it just wouldn't bug me if it were to be my lover to read through my private stuff. In the end, I don't have stuff to hide, so why should I worry if he read my texts?

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by L on 11-20-2009 1:08 pm

treeceydoll wrote: I understand why some of you wouldn't care, because you feel you have nothing to hide. But does it not tie down to a matter of trust and respect? It's like they would be suspicious of you all the time. How is that a healthy relationship?

Roylance wrote: It's very fucking rude.

This.

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by Little Soul on 11-20-2009 3:17 pm

Haha. My boyfriend offers his phone password, but I declined it for this very reason.
Personal space. I don't need to see everything.

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Re: RE: Relationships and Texting.

by Vickslashes on 11-20-2009 3:51 pm

MelodyOfMalice wrote: It would bother me because of personal courtesy. I think it's just as bad as reading over someones text.
But, the actual message wouldn't, I have nothing to hide. Just a fact of respect.

This.

Matt wrote: Another thing I hate is when they text you allllll the time and get angry if you don't reply.

If I'm out somewhere and doing whatever, I can't be just textin' textin' textin'.

And besides, if you were to for example see them after you were out all day, you couldn't really have conversation about what you did that day because you'd already been texting about it aaalll day.

I agree, that's why I don't text anymore.

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by ShyGirl on 11-20-2009 4:08 pm

Matt wrote: Another thing I hate is when they text you allllll the time and get angry if you don't reply.

If I'm out somewhere and doing whatever, I can't be just textin' textin' textin'.

And besides, if you were to for example see them after you were out all day, you couldn't really have conversation about what you did that day because you'd already been texting about it aaalll day.

My friend has an ex that would throw a fit if she didn't text back fast enough. Her ex got all mad one night and said 'Do you not want to talk to me? It's taken over four minutes for you to reply."

One day my friend didn't text back for 5 minutes and the girl freaked and called her.

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by SnowXwhite on 11-20-2009 4:20 pm

I don't text, hence why I wouldn't care XD

My boyfriend looks through my stuff just for fun because I have interesting conversation provoking stuff. I trust that he's not looking for bad stuff, because I'm crazy honest anyways. I tell him anything anyways.

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