ok heres the thing ppl

i have a lot of personal probs and everyone keeps teling me 2 go 2 a shrink, thing is if i do my mom will find out bout everything wrong with me and ive managed to keep up such a pretence that she has no idea bout my probs. . . she thinks im fine.


every1 tells me i should tell her but how do u break the news to ur parent that u have depression(and have 4 3 years), paranoia and are a possible schizophrenic?! i just cant do that!




she often tells me how much she hates me! y would she care about my problems?



please ppl i really need some advice here.





but there is something i need advice on even more. . . . .my friends is geting beaten up by his dad. . . .i dont know what to do, ive said u can come and live with me if u want but he said he'll only do that if it gets worse. . . .which makes me worry that he'll just put up with it anyway. :S need some serious help here

i also have alot of problems and i keep a journal and accidently left it out one time so my parents read it..at first i was rly pissed but then it was beter that they knew about my shit with out me having to tell them...and the thing about the friend with the abusive dad..one of my best friends dads r rlyy abusive..like to the point wheres hes been in the hospital with concusions and idk y but he doesnt want to do anything about it. he just takes it..so idk wat to tell u about that

This is probably going to sound really stupid, but whenever I have really big probles, I wrtite them down on a peice of paper along with my feelings and what I wish I could do, then I go into my backyard and burn it.

Its kinda like a ceremony. It actually makes me feel better.

I dont know if that will help, but its all I got.

thanks guys. . .i really appreciate your advice

its helped a lot.

deathsbestbud wrote: every1 tells me i should tell her but how do u break the news to ur parent that u r bulimic, anorexic, have depression(and have 4 3 years), paranoia and are a possible schizophrenic?! i just cant do that!

Maybe add hypchondric to that?

deathsbestbud wrote: but there is something i need advice on even more. . . . .my friends is geting beaten up by his dad. . . .i dont know what to do, ive said u can come and live with me if u want but he said he'll only do that if it gets worse. . . .which makes me worry that he'll just put up with it anyway. :S need some serious help here

Report it.

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You need to seek help from a professional, not from little kids on a forum full of pseudo-depressive people.

You shouldn't view your mother finding out about your problems as something negative. If you indeed to suffer from something, you would most likely want the support of your loved ones, as it will speed up your recovery process.

And being sad is very different from having clinical depression, and I doubt you are capable of diagnosing yourself. Also, what makes you think you might possibly suffer from schizophrenia? Do you even know what it is?

And I agree with L: you should report it. Report it before it gets worse, which it most likely will.