what do you think about it?
should kids be aloud to do this?
Pre Marital Sex Vs Abstinence
Pre Marital Sex Vs Abstinence
by BLiNdFaNaTiC on 03-12-2008 3:37 pm
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by Ashr on 03-12-2008 5:24 pm
I do not belive permarital sex is right. It removes the value and love that comes with sex and reduces it to "just something you do."
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by SnowXwhite on 03-12-2008 6:00 pm
I don't think people should take sex lightly but I don't see whats wrong with pre-marital sex. What if they are crazy when they have sex? What if they hurt you? A simple break up is a lot easier then a divorce. People should know another person inside and out before they marry another person, and sex tells a lot about a person. You won't know the person entirely with out knowing them in sex.
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by elliah is waiting on 03-12-2008 6:31 pm
i feel that if you are mature enough and can handle being that intimate with another person and taking that big of a serious step towards commitment..
then go ahead..
but then again there are many immature ignorant young people out there who aren't taking the proper precautions when and if they decide to do so..which results in teen pregnancy and STI's..i mean i'm not gonna preach or anything..(i was a result of that behavior)..but i don't feel that it's worth possibly giving up your own hopes and dreams..for a few minutes of pleasure..
my mother had to give up a lot to raise me by herself and i'm thankful..but she could've amounted to a whole lot more..if she had been more careful..and made better decisions..
!Elliah!
then go ahead..
but then again there are many immature ignorant young people out there who aren't taking the proper precautions when and if they decide to do so..which results in teen pregnancy and STI's..i mean i'm not gonna preach or anything..(i was a result of that behavior)..but i don't feel that it's worth possibly giving up your own hopes and dreams..for a few minutes of pleasure..
my mother had to give up a lot to raise me by herself and i'm thankful..but she could've amounted to a whole lot more..if she had been more careful..and made better decisions..
!Elliah!
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by xXdeadxrosexX on 03-12-2008 6:38 pm
no i dont think its ok.....save urself for the person ur married to cuz thats how god wants it to be and it prolly makes ur relationship stronger cuz its something special that u 2 share....
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by Little Soul on 03-12-2008 10:31 pm
I'm Pro Choice for this.
Not too young. Old enough to be able to make the right desicions.
And not hide it from your parents.
You have to have good intentions and love the right person.
But I wouldn't wait till marriage simply because I don't want a dissapointment after making a desicion like giving the rest of my life up to live with someone else.
If you know what I mean..
Not too young. Old enough to be able to make the right desicions.
And not hide it from your parents.
You have to have good intentions and love the right person.
But I wouldn't wait till marriage simply because I don't want a dissapointment after making a desicion like giving the rest of my life up to live with someone else.
If you know what I mean..
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by xxfallfrominfamyxx on 03-12-2008 11:12 pm
I am against.
Don't know how to explain my answer.. (word it I mean)
Anyways I think part of it is because my aunt got pregnant at 12yrs. old.. o.O that would be scary..
Don't know how to explain my answer.. (word it I mean)
Anyways I think part of it is because my aunt got pregnant at 12yrs. old.. o.O that would be scary..
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by iSatrix on 03-12-2008 11:36 pm
I don't have anything against pre-marital sex, it's a chrictian trait, and I'm atheist...I'm not bashing christians there, just saying why I don't disagree with it. BUT I do feel sex no one should have sex just for the sake of sex, I it should have some significant emotional meaning in order for it to take place...but that's just me.
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by Heretic on 03-13-2008 6:58 am
I'm pro premarital sex, because i doubt that God and Jesus wanted to force people to live a whole lifetime with someone they are sexually "incompatible" with.
I doubt that the christian God wants us to suffer this way.
Think about it, you meet the person you love but don't want to marry, for several reasons, but love em, what should be wrong about having sex with this person?
The bible contradicts itself on so many matters, that, along with the many translation errors that have corrupted the text, that the modern day bible should not be seen as binding in a literal but merely a metaphorical way.
(For example, i'll point out one popular misconception:
"...I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." Matthew 19:24
Some scholars have suggested that the word camel (κάμηλον) is in fact a mistranslation of the Greek original, and should instead read rope (κάμιλον). )
I doubt that the christian God wants us to suffer this way.
Think about it, you meet the person you love but don't want to marry, for several reasons, but love em, what should be wrong about having sex with this person?
The bible contradicts itself on so many matters, that, along with the many translation errors that have corrupted the text, that the modern day bible should not be seen as binding in a literal but merely a metaphorical way.
(For example, i'll point out one popular misconception:
"...I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." Matthew 19:24
Some scholars have suggested that the word camel (κάμηλον) is in fact a mistranslation of the Greek original, and should instead read rope (κάμιλον). )
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by aztekk on 03-13-2008 7:01 am
Heretic wrote: I'm pro premarital sex, because i doubt that God and Jesus wanted to force people to live a whole lifetime with someone they are sexually "incompatible" with.
I doubt that the christian God wants us to suffer this way.
Think about it, you meet the person you love but don't want to marry, for several reasons, but love em, what should be wrong about having sex with this person?
The bible contradicts itself on so many matters, that, along with the many translation errors that have corrupted the text, that the modern day bible should not be seen as binding in a literal but merely a metaphorical way.
(For example, i'll point out one popular misconception:
"...I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." Matthew 19:24
Some scholars have suggested that the word camel (κάμηλον) is in fact a mistranslation of the Greek original, and should instead read rope (κάμιλον). )
Yeah one minute god's saying thou shall not kill, the next he demands an eye for an eye.
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