We are ready...but not

We are ready...but not

by TextFire on 11-04-2009 5:36 pm

Me and my boyfriend have started thinking about sex...But we haven't really talked about it. He tells me he's horny sometimes and I'm confident he wants in my pants by all the stuff he does. I wanna fuck too but I'm just worried he won't want it anymore if he sees me underneath my clothes. My midsection is okay but I think I have fat thighs...And also, Iwe don't have a place since my house isn't an option and neither is his...What can I do?

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by emosroc on 11-04-2009 5:49 pm

im sure he/ll still like you no matter what an as for the place id advise a park or another remote place

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by King Doubt on 11-04-2009 5:51 pm

You're 15.
WTF?!

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by rockitemokid on 11-04-2009 5:54 pm

Instead of trying to force it, wait till the right time comes.

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by loves3daysgrace on 11-04-2009 6:07 pm

rockitemokid wrote: Instead of trying to force it, wait till the right time comes.

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by Strawberry Switchblade on 11-04-2009 6:16 pm

You're not ready.
Am I saying you're not ready to have sex? Not quite. I'm saying you are not ready to come to him with full trust and confidence. You both are a factor in working on your self confidence issues. It would beneficial to you both if you worked on your issues first, and considered sex later.

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by Ningage on 11-04-2009 6:23 pm

If you both want to have sex, why don't you go for it.

Though it does seem like you're kinda not ready, and it'd be better if you held it off till you were.
Just be sure to keep it safe. Use a condom and/or the pill.

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by BrawnyMan on 11-04-2009 6:27 pm

Liek we wannuh have secks but uh liek we're not readdyyyy


THEN DON'T HAVE SEX!

goddamn this is a fucktard thread

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by TextFire on 11-04-2009 6:33 pm

Okay I gave this thread the wrong title :\ I do feel like we are ready, but I don't know what to do about the place thats all. As for my legs...Oh well.... But mostly idk what to do about the place and its cold as fuck outside ANYWHERE!

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by Ningage on 11-04-2009 6:39 pm

TextFire wrote: Okay I gave this thread the wrong title :\ I do feel like we are ready, but I don't know what to do about the place thats all. As for my legs...Oh well.... But mostly idk what to do about the place and its cold as fuck outside ANYWHERE!
Inside one of ya'll's houses when the parents aren't home?
If you get pregnant, I'mma laugh.

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by TextFire on 11-04-2009 6:43 pm

Ningage wrote:
TextFire wrote: Okay I gave this thread the wrong title :\ I do feel like we are ready, but I don't know what to do about the place thats all. As for my legs...Oh well.... But mostly idk what to do about the place and its cold as fuck outside ANYWHERE!
Inside one of ya'll's houses when the parents aren't home?
If you get pregnant, I'mma laugh.


I'm not that fuckin stupid :\ I do know what a condom is.

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by rockitemokid on 11-04-2009 7:04 pm

Like I said, don't plan it out.
If a time comes, and you're ready, and he's ready, and you have the time and place to do it privately, go for it.
Just let the stars align, you know yourself better than us, you'll be able to tell when it's right.

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by KittensKill on 11-04-2009 7:14 pm

rockitemokid wrote: Like I said, don't plan it out.
If a time comes, and you're ready, and he's ready, and you have the time and place to do it privately, go for it.
Yes!
Just always keep condoms handy.
Play around, get to know each other, educate yourselves, and when the time is right go for it.
Planning sex doesnt work. It should be spontaneous.

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by sultryinpink on 11-05-2009 3:37 pm

Shave go on BC and use condom BC because condoms break hehe Confused and work it out slowly start with small things you know don't go to intercourse right away try foreplay for a bit then work onto oral sex then when your sure intercourse...to be honest...for me it wasn't that big of a deal um drink a lot of liquids -giggle-

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by EmoKid09 on 11-05-2009 10:52 pm

just dont have sex! if your not ready then dont do it.
and hes your bf, im sure he'll love you no matter what size you are.

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