Sex Thread 2 - Q & A

Blythe wrote:

Nintendo wrote: I have a question.

Last night, I had sex for the first time in a few months. I've had sex before in the past, and this is where my question comes in.

At the beginning, it hurt almost as much as it did when I first lost my virginity. Is that (for lack of better word) normal?

Definitely normal. You have to take into mind that not every guy out there is the same size. Plus, masturbation for a girl can actually make her tighter since when you orgasm, your muscles contract and it helps build them up. (There's actually exercises you can do to make yourself tighter XD). So if it's been a while, and you've been masturbating during that time, you've gone back to square one almost, minus the hymen.

I know, but it was with the same person. I've actually never masturbated.

Thank you. (:

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L, I shaved my area because I saw it on porn when I was like 12. I figured that everything happening their is what actual sex is like and too some degree I still do. I mean, I have no idea what it looks like or feels like, so I base my ideas from porn. Sounds bad, but it's the honest truth. I'm not as stupid as too believe that everything they do in porn is expected, obviously some things are a little dirtier, but that's what I base my ideas on.

Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Narcotic Bliss wrote:
So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections.

HAHAHAHAHHA

sorry >.>

Joli Petit Canard wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote:
So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections.

HAHAHAHAHHA

sorry >.>

How are bladder infections funny >.>

Unless you mean the wording, in which it sounds like it means them both sleeping together : P

MelodyOfMalice wrote:
Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

It's not really -wrong- per say, but I mean, >.> you might be leading yourself into an addiction of some sorts. I would try masturbating without the porn for a while, just to see if you could do it. Use your imagination!

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Eh, ew. >.> I've had a few from sex from past partners. It's really just all about hygiene. If your having sex without a condom, first make sure you're taking some other kind of birth control. After having sex though, try peeing. >.> Sounds weird, but the urine actually helps kill any bacteria that may be around your area. Then shower, maybe together? (:

I mean, they are normal to a certain degree, but if you keep getting them, someone isn't washing themselves all to well. <.<

Blythe wrote:

MelodyOfMalice wrote:
Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

It's not really -wrong- per say, but I mean, >.> you might be leading yourself into an addiction of some sorts. I would try masturbating without the porn for a while, just to see if you could do it. Use your imagination!

That's what I was worried of =\
All my imagining is what started this, then I just moved onto porn because I was finding that I was getting so horny that regularly mastirbating wasn't enough. Heh, I think I'll take your advice and cut down. Thank you very much. (:

MelodyOfMalice wrote:

Blythe wrote:

MelodyOfMalice wrote:
Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

It's not really -wrong- per say, but I mean, >.> you might be leading yourself into an addiction of some sorts. I would try masturbating without the porn for a while, just to see if you could do it. Use your imagination!

That's what I was worried of =\
All my imagining is what started this, then I just moved onto porn because I was finding that I was getting so horny that regularly mastirbating wasn't enough. Heh, I think I'll take your advice and cut down. Thank you very much. (:

You're welcomeee. I wouldn't worry about it to much right now if you're 14, assuming by what your age says. Being that horny at that age is pretty normal I'd think. At least, that's how I used to be. I have dial-up though so I couldn't watch videos. So I spent most of my time reading erotica. XD. My urge to do that though has died down a hell of a lot though. I think as you get older you'll find yourself less tempted. Hopefully at least. >.>

Yeah, I'm 14.
Indeed, teenage hormones and stuff.
Haha, exactly XD
I'm guessing it will, hopefully because I'll be getting laid and because you kind of grow out of it, so I have been told.

Blythe wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Eh, ew. >.> I've had a few from sex from past partners. It's really just all about hygiene. If your having sex without a condom, first make sure you're taking some other kind of birth control. After having sex though, try peeing. >.> Sounds weird, but the urine actually helps kill any bacteria that may be around your area. Then shower, maybe together? (:

I mean, they are normal to a certain degree, but if you keep getting them, someone isn't washing themselves all to well. <.<

My aunt gets one EVERYTIME she has sex.
and I plan on getting an IUD, so birth control pills won't be needed.

MelodyOfMalice wrote:

Joli Petit Canard wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote:
So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections.

HAHAHAHAHHA

sorry >.>

How are bladder infections funny >.>

Unless you mean the wording, in which it sounds like it means them both sleeping together : P

haha yeah it was the fact that it look like her aunt and mother are sleeping together XD

Lol @ Joli.
And

Narcotic Bliss wrote:

Blythe wrote:

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Eh, ew. >.> I've had a few from sex from past partners. It's really just all about hygiene. If your having sex without a condom, first make sure you're taking some other kind of birth control. After having sex though, try peeing. >.> Sounds weird, but the urine actually helps kill any bacteria that may be around your area. Then shower, maybe together? (:

I mean, they are normal to a certain degree, but if you keep getting them, someone isn't washing themselves all to well. <.<

My aunt gets one EVERYTIME she has sex.
and I plan on getting an IUD, so birth control pills won't be needed.

Tell your aunt and uncle to start washing themselves. >_>;

Narcotic Bliss wrote: QUESTIONQUESTIONQUESTION

So everytime my aunt and mom have sex without a condom, they get bladder infections. From just like, one night.
Is that normal? I don't want to be getting bladder infections everytime I have sex, but I really don't want to use a condom.

Not normal, but not abnormal either. You may have the same issues, and bladder infections are very, very owwie, so a condom might be your only bet. Pee before and after sex as well. Make sure your partner not only has good cleanliness habits (double that if he's uncircumcised) but make sure he scrubs his pubic hair too.

Question: does your mother and aunt have sensitive skin?

Blythe wrote:

MelodyOfMalice wrote:
Ok so, is it wrong that I watch porn like everyday, for 15 minutes to an hour? And that I need to masturbate to fall asleep and multiple times a day..?

It's not really -wrong- per say, but I mean, >.> you might be leading yourself into an addiction of some sorts. I would try masturbating without the porn for a while, just to see if you could do it. Use your imagination!

I personally don't think so much an addiction could form, though it's possible, as her method of reachin orgasm may end up boxing her in. She might end up only being able to orgasm from a certain method, which sucks to undo (been there) in order to have O's with a partner.