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by emolesbian on 09-14-2009 5:40 am

emolesbian wrote: is it wise to cut up old shirts and such to make like wrist thingys to cover up my old scars?
I think it depends on the material of the shirt and what not. If its done right, it should work out fine. For me, I'd buy wristbands or bracelets or get fingerless gloves that cover up. If you spend enough time (or have lots of talent), your handmade accessories might look really nice. A thick one might cover it all up and a lot of thin ones should disguise it.

at least you've stopped doing it.
I hope
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ya I stopped dude (the cutting at least) but I can't afford wristbands or bracelets and such, my mom doesn't buy me anything to cover my scars from the past. She says I should feel regret and that's what I get for cutting. If they nvr heal that it's all my fault. but ya im not the best at sewing and such. I end up just putting designs into my skin. (bad I know) plus my stupid school may call me out on being "gang affiliated" for "repping colors"

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by krizzy on 09-14-2009 6:07 am

Good for you. (for stopping)
=( yea. wristbands can be expensive. but some bracelets out there are reasonable. Like getting thin, leather bracelets that are connected to each other so it looks like 3.
well.. can you braid things or make friendship bracelets? All you need is the thread/strings. They don't have to be thick and just have like 4 on one wrist. It won't cover your scars, but it shouldn't be as noticeable. You don't even need a complicated pattern, just get the right colors together and it'll look good.

for me, scars DO heal. It just takes a really really long time.. actually, it depends on what caused it. Burn scars and some bug/spider bites stay longer than small cuts. Get ready to wait several years though.

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by ACdub on 09-19-2009 10:02 pm

I kinda want to know where can I get wrist accesiries for gyus... but not big ones like wristbands I want skinny ones so I can have more....I looked at hottopic.. but I my grandma tough those were too girly..and I kinda tough that too.... where do you think I could find it

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by ThatEmoGirl513 on 09-26-2009 12:02 am

I have wavy hair, it's not curly, but it's not straight. Oh, and it's long and frizzy. Would cutting it short make it more manageable? I really want 2 cut it short, but I'm afraid it's goin 2 look little-girl-ish Confused

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by ohliveuh on 09-26-2009 10:27 am

ThatEmoGirl513 wrote: I have wavy hair, it's not curly, but it's not straight. Oh, and it's long and frizzy. Would cutting it short make it more manageable? I really want 2 cut it short, but I'm afraid it's goin 2 look little-girl-ish Confused


Alright, this is similar to my hair.

I put a lot of care and effort into my hair, so if you're not willing to do that, then stop reading.
But, this is my hair routine:

in the shower, use a shampoo that reduces frizz. I mix one used for restoring shine and reducing frizz. Mine look like this:
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I bought mine at my local hair salon. it's a little pricey, but worth it if you're serious about doing something with your hair.


after that, wash it out and condition. I use three different conditioners in seperate parts of my hair. First, I use a regular drugstore conditioner on the roots and crown of my hair, because using one too heavy may make your hair look greasy faster. I use this (a different kind, but this is the anti frizz, which would be better for you):

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after that, I use this from roughly half way down my head to my roots, it's a deep conditioner that will do wonders in repairing your hair and keeping it shiny and smooth:

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I also got that at my local salon, but I believe you can order it online. I'll post links if I can find them.
then, on my ends and sometimes my entire head if I had straightened or curled my hair that day, I use this:
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it's definitely my holy grail hair care item. It works so well. Shu Uemura is a really good brand, and their texturizing spray works really well for taming your waves and making them perfect:
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both of these I got at local hair salons. Again, I'll try to get links.

tip: the thicker the conditioner, the better it will moisturize your hair. Garnier Fructis has a good one that comes in a pot, too. It's available at drug stores.

I let conditioner sit for five minutes while I wash my face and everything else in the shower, then I'll rinse with luke warm water. Using colder water makes your hair shinier because the warmth somewhat breaks down it's outer barrier.

when out of the shower and lightly towel drying my hair, I use detangler and flip my hair over, combing it out with a wide tooth comb. Be sure to use a wide tooth comb because brushes or teasing combs will just rip through snarls in your hair, breaking the strands and creating more frizz.

After that, I spray biolage stay in conditioner on my ends and body of my hair, to keep it healthy throughout the day:

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then I apply an anti-frizz creme so that it dries smooth:

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then comb your fringe and what not in the direction you want it to dry with the comb,and you're done.
If you plan on blow drying, spray a heat protectant on your hair to make sure it doesn't get burned by the hair dryer (also use this for straightening, curling, and any other hot tools). I recommend CHI iron guard:
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THAR!

links:
love shampoo
love conditioner
pantene conditioner
CHI iron guard (I recommend all CHI products highly)
Shu Uemura site

-deep breaths-
yeah, I take reeally good care of my hair
>_>

final note: don't cut your hair short, but maybe take off a few inches so it's not so long and unmanageable.

uhh..anyone can use this guide.
yeah.

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by worldisanabyssx on 10-10-2009 7:55 am

I really need a good haristyle
I just dont know which one
I dont like how the back of my hair looks...it curls at a certain point and I dont wanna cut it because my hair will look short......can anyone help me?

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by krazystalkergrl on 10-10-2009 12:10 pm

worldisanabyssx wrote: I really need a good haristyle
I just dont know which one
I dont like how the back of my hair looks...it curls at a certain point and I dont wanna cut it because my hair will look short......can anyone help me?


Pictures of what you have, and what you want.
Google or photobucket it.

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by worldisanabyssx on 10-11-2009 10:35 pm

krazystalkergrl wrote:
worldisanabyssx wrote: I really need a good haristyle
I just dont know which one
I dont like how the back of my hair looks...it curls at a certain point and I dont wanna cut it because my hair will look short......can anyone help me?


Pictures of what you have, and what you want.
Google or photobucket it.


Thanks Very Happy
I guess sometimes I feel like a total jackass about showing a picture to my hair stylists.

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by Venus on 10-12-2009 8:02 am

I've been looking on youtube for some hair straightening tutorials.
some pretty good ones:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+straighten+hair&search_type=&aq=f
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4J0CmetkQ
Might post more later.

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by SauceyDave on 10-13-2009 6:53 am

If I want to go from my colour (Mediumly darkish brown which is dyed from a darker redy/brown) to a black. Whats the best way to do it?

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by Venus on 10-13-2009 8:14 am

Dye it.

Rather than getting the $10 stuff from a packet, you hair will appreciate it more if you spend a little extra and buy the peroxide and dye from the tube more.
For example, go to Priceline/Price attack and you can buy the Salon professional Supplies brand, which i found to be quite good, and get number 1.0 for a black dye.
Then volume 20 peroxide.
Mix it from the instructions and use a brush to apply it/get someone else to apply it.
That's what I did.

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by worldisanabyssx on 10-13-2009 11:46 am

VenusDoom wrote: I've been looking on youtube for some hair straightening tutorials.
some pretty good ones:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+straighten+hair&search_type=&aq=f
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4J0CmetkQ
Might post more later.


Thanks:D
Now I realize what I was doing wrong with my hair.

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by SauceyDave on 10-15-2009 2:32 am

VenusDoom wrote: Dye it.

Rather than getting the $10 stuff from a packet, you hair will appreciate it more if you spend a little extra and buy the peroxide and dye from the tube more.
For example, go to Priceline/Price attack and you can buy the Salon professional Supplies brand, which i found to be quite good, and get number 1.0 for a black dye.
Then volume 20 peroxide.
Mix it from the instructions and use a brush to apply it/get someone else to apply it.
That's what I did.


Thanks Heaps.
That is just what I needed!

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by Venus on 10-15-2009 4:30 am

You're welcome and you're welcome Wink

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by VioletVelvetine on 11-02-2009 11:37 am

If your hair is already a brown shade using peroxide isn't needed. You're just causing unnecessary damage to your hair that way.

I would recommend the Garnier selection of dye (you can find them everywhere). It works exceptionally well.

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