this is funny to me: there are more "bisexuals on this forum then straight people, which isn't very accurate with a real life perspective.

I think teens fool themselves a lot when it comes to their sexuality. Realistically, how do you know your sexuality unless you have actually slept with a member of the same sex and enjoyed it? I think a lot of kids here who say they are bi have never done this, and think just because they like to kiss members of the same sex, they are "bi". No, that's being a hormonal, curious teenager.

Well I'm straight.
But I have mental obsessions with males, it's probably just wanting to be like them.
But it seems more...


Maybe I'm just being greedy.

If I meet some extraordinary girl, I get those silly "woman crushes", but I wouldn't call that being interested in someone sexually

same thing im thinking?

im bi, but only a very few know that. i haven't told my mum, coz my brother is gay, and he told her and now she hardly speaks to him. i get called gay a lot as well... never mind

Sweet Carnage wrote: this is funny to me: there are more "bisexuals on this forum then straight people, which isn't very accurate with a real life perspective.

I think teens fool themselves a lot when it comes to their sexuality. Realistically, how do you know your sexuality unless you have actually slept with a member of the same sex and enjoyed it? I think a lot of kids here who say they are bi have never done this, and think just because they like to kiss members of the same sex, they are "bi". No, that's being a hormonal, curious teenager.

This is sssooo true

Im Bi.

I'm sure you are.

It's tough to talk! but if you wanna talk then just let it out. and whoever is telien you to be yourselve is rite...but you gotta fine out who you really are first are you really bi? stuff like that...im not sayint your not im just sayin...And really your not alone theres like a shit load of bi people...iknow atleast ten and for me thats alot of people! lol and for whoveres teasin you and makin you blush id reverse the roles when she starts duin shit like that play along with it...ya know like start pullin down yur shirt and kiss her are sumthin...make her uncomfortable!! it could work...idk about tellin your family...personaly i never told my family anything.

...thats just what i think...

Sweet Carnage wrote: this is funny to me: there are more "bisexuals on this forum then straight people, which isn't very accurate with a real life perspective.

I think teens fool themselves a lot when it comes to their sexuality. Realistically, how do you know your sexuality unless you have actually slept with a member of the same sex and enjoyed it? I think a lot of kids here who say they are bi have never done this, and think just because they like to kiss members of the same sex, they are "bi". No, that's being a hormonal, curious teenager.

Agreed. At let's say, my age, I really don't believe that most teens are absolutely sure about their sexuality.

Saying that they are "bi" is a bit quick for them to come to conclusions, when the teenage years are a time of discovering yourself. However, I can definately understand "bi-curious", because that implied that they aren't sure and possibly experimenting.

Well, it started waay back when, when I was like 15. I started noticing guys, and stuff like that. So when I'm 16, I slept with a guy. We started dating etc etc. I know I find both genders sexually attractive. But anyway, my query. Is it wrong that because my friends are making jokes about me, that I plan on fighting them? :/

tellmeyouloveme wrote: wait...so hetero means your straight?

ok.

well im that one were you dont fall in love with the gender, just the person.

at one point people were calling me pansexual, but i dont love doggys or aliens :S so, idk.

whats it called?

I believe "Pansexual" is the correct term for that.

I am homosexual. =]
I've only got one foot out of the closet, though.
Only my close friends know about it.
Where I live, homosexuality is frowned upon; whereas bisexuality is rather common. (Pretty stupid, I think.)
I haven't even told my family yet.
And I do not plan on "coming out of the closet" until after high school. XD
But still, it's difficult living like this. :/

i'm straight i don't really tend to do much more then kiss and hug the other sex...

Jackie xx Jaded wrote:

tellmeyouloveme wrote: wait...so hetero means your straight?

ok.

well im that one were you dont fall in love with the gender, just the person.

at one point people were calling me pansexual, but i dont love doggys or aliens :S so, idk.

whats it called?

I believe "Pansexual" is the correct term for that.

Pansexual

Pansexuality or anthrosexuality (anthro- literally meaning human, human sexual) (sometimes referred to as omnisexuality[1]) is a sexual orientation characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, and/or sexual desire for people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Thus, pansexuality includes potential attraction to people (such as transgender individuals) who do not fit into the gender binary of male/female. Some pansexuals suggest that they are gender-blind; that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.[2]

The word pansexual is derived from the Greek prefix pan-, meaning "all". "All" is specifically in reference to human genders. In its simplest form, pansexuality denotes the potential of sexual attraction to all genders. It is intended to negate the idea of two genders (as expressed by bi-).

Because pan- refers only to human genders, and not to sexual practices or people in general, pansexuality does not signify automatic attraction to all people. Similarly, it also does not signify acceptance of all sexual behaviors, such as paraphilias (for example, incest, bestiality, or necrophilia) or fetishes. As with more common sexual identities such as homosexuality and heterosexuality, pansexuality refers to the role of gender in sexual attraction, and not to the role of sexual acts and behaviors.

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