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feeling ever so lonely

by nrveggie on 08-15-2008 10:46 pm

Everyone tells me that I don't need a man or woman (i am bi) to complete my life. But I feel so empty! I wish I had someone to go to the amusement park with, to go to dinner with, to hold hands and snuggle with. Having the 'perfect' person in your life makes you feel complete. I remember something I heard from the musical Hairspray:

"Without love, life is like rock-and-roll without a drummer."

I agree with that statement. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find anybody. It's almost like I'm all alone in the world...which isn't true, because I have a family and a couple of friends. Why do I feel so hollow inside? Sad

I'm sure someone has probably posted something like this before. Go ahead, mods, lock it for all I care. I just wanted to get that off my chest.
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by KittensKill on 08-16-2008 12:48 am

sometimes life is shit. I dont believe in perfection, but i've been lucky enough to find someone who makes me happy. You'll find someone, don't worry about it too much, just think of all the things you can do alone, without someone else saying they don't want to do what you want to do.

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by SamiSuicide on 08-16-2008 2:34 am

I know what you mean. It just seems like it's a lie..
No one who doesnt have another person is truly happy, and we can all see that.
Like those people who are 50 and single, I feel bad for them.
Because it just goes to prove the saying, "There is someone for everyone," is totally fake..
But then again it's not a perfect world.
I know what you mean though, I wish that too.
You'll find someone though, dont worry. It happens when you least expect it.
Tell them lies and they will believe you
When you're honest they will deceive you
If you love them they will just leave you
But if you play them they will stay with you

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by Lifeless on 08-16-2008 12:20 pm

yeah no one is complete by himself.. and yeah i believe there's one for everyone, so dont worry u'll find that person, but till then u just live ur life normally along with ur friends and family [=
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by bellaxmuertexxx on 08-16-2008 12:29 pm

i sorta kno how you feel with having nobody
but i personally think that there will be someone out there for you
and sadly as it is, it might happen, or it might not
but keep your hopes up, and try to find who the special guy/girl will be
i think that everything will turn out fine
(it probably will) =]
life sucks, and then you die
yea, i wish i was that lucky >.>
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by ForeverCold on 08-16-2008 9:46 pm

The "perfect" person is a lie (not so much a lie but more of a WRONG statement).
Maybe I am just a cynic, but I am finding to be increasingly true.
And as for the "Your family are always there" shit, what of those who have no family (or at least one that is just not there in the traditional sense)? I can't exactly talk to them or even have them acknowledge my existence.

The way I see it is that you may as well go about your business as usual.

As one of my favorite songs go:
Remove from me, this deception that I call love.
You Build me up
But just to watch
me break.

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by ThatTokenBlakEmo on 08-17-2008 9:00 am

Yea, there's always going to be a void there if you don't find someone to fill it up. That's a reality. But the real reality is that there is no puzzle piece out there who can fit you perfectly. The best you can do is jam and glue a piece that's close to you and hope that it stays in.

Your band might not have a drummer, but acoustic bands are cool and they do just fine.
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by Sweet Carnage on 08-17-2008 12:14 pm

Hahaha, I know how you feel. While relationships really arn't everything, and we don't need someone to complete our lives right now, it doesn't mean you don't get lonely. I don't think theres a lot you can do about that, but don't ever resort to an empty relationship if the opportunity comes up. Right now, you need to focus on your self growth: put your passion and energy into school, or a hobby that means a lot to you. Better that then let it bottle up at your expense wishing for someone to be with. Smile
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by xxxxDeadRosexxxx on 08-18-2008 1:33 am

I feel so lonely without my best freind. I love them, but they don't lke me like that. I can't help but cry. They know that they screwed me up, but they won't help me. I hope things get better.

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by xxkawiicuteness on 08-18-2008 5:58 am

nrveggie wrote: Everyone tells me that I don't need a man or woman (i am bi) to complete my life. But I feel so empty! I wish I had someone to go to the amusement park with, to go to dinner with, to hold hands and snuggle with. Having the 'perfect' person in your life makes you feel complete. I remember something I heard from the musical Hairspray:

"Without love, life is like rock-and-roll without a drummer."

I agree with that statement. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find anybody. It's almost like I'm all alone in the world...which isn't true, because I have a family and a couple of friends. Why do I feel so hollow inside? Sad

I'm sure someone has probably posted something like this before. Go ahead, mods, lock it for all I care. I just wanted to get that off my chest.


i soo feel you,but our time will come.

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RE: feeling ever so lonely

by Johnny Raincloud on 08-18-2008 6:54 am

you're 15. quit with the self-pity. end.
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RE: feeling ever so lonely

by PunkRockPrincess4Life on 08-22-2008 8:15 pm

Im bi too. =]
I know how you feel, I feel like I'll never find anyone.
But you know what?
Love sucks, theres always heartbreak. Always.

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by PwnmachineisxXx on 08-25-2008 12:12 am

I feel this way all the time, and yes another person who is really special will make this feeling go away and be replaced with one of happyness. For me this isn't an option, but you certainly can find someone who loves you it'll, just take time. Until then stop the self pity and find something to do.

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