I've been seeing a guy called jack for 2months. Since we started seeing each other, we've been able to see ecah other nearly every other day. We've never had a problem.

It was last week when things started 2 go wrong.
When i txted, he wouldn't txt back, when i called he said he was busy. We i saw him yesterday, he kept looking away from me. checking his watch, and it was generally awkward.

I've asked him if something was wrong, and he said he fine, he just had to be home soon. I don't know why, but i don't believe him.

Does anyone have a clue whats going on? I don't want accuse him of something if i don't know but i don't have a clue whats happening.

Well, I kinda went through the same thing. My boyfriend just started acting really wierd and we were hardly ever together. I thought that he was cheating , but it actually turned out that he was having trouble in school and was trying to study a lot more. He was embarassed to tell me that's why it went on like that for a while. After he told me that I still did make sure it was just stress from school. You might want to check and see if maybe he's having issues at home, work, or school. and if he can't find the time to sit down with you and talk about it, you can always go to his friends or parents and see if they know anything.

xXGlassTearsXx wrote: You might want to check and see if maybe he's having issues at home, work, or school. and if he can't find the time to sit down with you and talk about it, you can always go to his friends or parents and see if they know anything.

i totally agree.

xXGlassTearsXx wrote: You might want to check and see if maybe he's having issues at home, work, or school. and if he can't find the time to sit down with you and talk about it, you can always go to his friends or parents and see if they know anything.

well i agree whit that...

but i went trought something like this few days ago... so... i really dont know what to do... all i was doing was kicking with my fists in wall... (yap... it hurts) but thats all you can do... at least in my case...
but... you can wait for him to open up... thats how i find out... i didnt ask no one... i was just waiting... thats bassicly all you can do... and let him tell you...

well...
or just do this in a quote...

lol
i think my Gf went thourgh this this past 3weeks coz i wrote off my car so i couldn't go visit her...
and i was really stressed coz i didn't have a car... no car means trouble going to work and i needed cash to pay for the new one so i was all over the show trying to get things sorted so my attention wasn't really with her...
so a week after my acident we had a fight (or first one in 2years) and didn't talk much to work it out coz i was busy with all the paperwork and stuff but yeah we had a lil break up coz she thought i was cheating on her and as for me i'm a weird guy so i was on the phone txting her and then we had i fight again so i held it in but my mom ain't stupid so she told me "you having trouble with natanja?" so automaticly my mom's job reflex's take over and she calls her puts it on loud speaker and tells us fight i wanna hear whats it about lol so we couldn't we started crying and we spoke it out and my mom assured her i'm not fucking around i'm just stressed and we worked it out so I'm seeing her Friday jippyjapelappelsap....

lol so my point was talk even if it is just 5min that 5min can make it or break it...
love never dies it just gathers dust...

does that mean i should just talk 2 him n work it out?

x hyper emo x wrote: I've been seeing a guy called jack for 2months. Since we started seeing each other, we've been able to see ecah other nearly every other day. We've never had a problem.

It was last week when things started 2 go wrong.
When i txted, he wouldn't txt back, when i called he said he was busy. We i saw him yesterday, he kept looking away from me. checking his watch, and it was generally awkward.

I've asked him if something was wrong, and he said he fine, he just had to be home soon. I don't know why, but i don't believe him.

Does anyone have a clue whats going on? I don't want accuse him of something if i don't know but i don't have a clue whats happening.

no clue! but idnt think he's o.k. basically just talk to him make him tell you whats goin on, let him now its hurting you that somethings wrong and your worried! Idk if he's hiding something...he may be...but also there could be something wrong like a family problem and personal it's hard to tell people about stuff like that i think...just let him now your open to listning and that your there for him...

x hyper emo x wrote: does that mean i should just talk 2 him n work it out?

yeahtalk to him that's the only way to know

i've tried talking to him and its not working. he's not telling me anything

did you say "i love you" to him?

threeEighteen wrote: did you say "i love you" to him?

yeah. coz i do. a lot.

Hmm...
Something like this happend to me. This girl would always call him late at night when he was taking me home. I would always be like who is that..
When he got off the phone he always said Yeah me too...
Soo i think he was cheatin on meh. butt.. whatever the past is the past...
I'm over it and himm..
But for you, I think you need to ask him straight up. Girll.. Dont hold back yer feelings.. Let him know how you feel. He could possibly be cheatin.. but it could also be family or school problems... That he doesnt know how to tell you about..
Lemme know what happens, kk?

KaylaLOVE wrote: . Girll.. Lemme know what happens, kk?

just 2 let u know... i'm a boy.

and i've asked him, and he won't tell me. but i will let u know

It's been sorted.
He was cheating on me, and he told me. but i still love him. ill miss him