Is it better to have loved and lost? --Your Opinion--

Is it better to have loved and lost? --Your Opinion--

by Altoid on 08-04-2008 7:29 pm

Ok guys and gals.

I would like your opinion on the following:

Is it better, to have Loved and Lost, rather than not have loved at all?

Comments? Opinions?

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by Ididntknowwhattosay on 08-04-2008 7:42 pm

Loved and lost, sure everything hurts so bad for awhile but things get better.
Step one: Light me on fire, Step two: Walk clean away I won't burn long and evidence of what you've done wrong will be gone.

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by helena304 on 08-04-2008 9:14 pm

If you never loved ,thane you don’t know what you have lost.

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RE: Is it better to have loved and lost? --Your Opinion--

by ShyGirl on 08-08-2008 5:18 am

To have loved and lost.

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by Lininofelia on 08-08-2008 10:33 am

Loved and lost.

To have never loved at all --- I never would have known the joy being loved could've brought.

Besides, I'm not the type of person who dwells on such things that give me pain. The wounds will heal, and I know that. There may be scars, but it can just serve as a quiet reminder of a past flame. I won't beat myself up about it.
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by xhorizonlinex on 08-09-2008 2:28 am

I have a feeling this is in the wrong section, but I could be wrong Confused

Anyway, Loved and Lost, definitely. I would rather have loved and been loved back at one point in my life than not have been loved or have been able to love at all.
Everyone needs love.


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RE: Is it better to have loved and lost? --Your Opinion--

by SNIDE on 08-09-2008 3:21 am

To have loved and lost, Love is beautiful and Fulfilling and to feel that for a brief moment makes it all worth while, After all, you may have lost the love but the Memories of what you felt are always there.

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by ZRC on 08-09-2008 1:35 pm

To be loved and lost. Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, and unlike a crush, it lasts. You're not meant to dwell on what happens after a relationship, but be happy with and cherish the relationship while you're in it.

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by ohliveuh on 08-10-2008 5:38 pm

Loved and Lost.
Hands down.
this moment will just be another story someday.
wake up, you're alive. We're on your side.

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by evotion on 08-10-2008 9:39 pm

be like an asexual, have asexual mind set, rip your heart out. banned from love, then love is more likely to not exist. and thats my opinion, good luck.

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by Lifeless on 08-10-2008 11:56 pm

probably love and lost ..
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by DarkLover on 08-23-2008 10:18 pm

I think that it really depends on you and the other person.
& the relationship in general, because while love is beautiful, fulfilling and great.
Heartbreak sucks big time so I think it really depends..

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by PunkRockPrincess4Life on 08-23-2008 10:22 pm

DarkLover wrote: I think that it really depends on you and the other person.
& the relationship in general, because while love is beautiful, fulfilling and great.
Heartbreak sucks big time so I think it really depends..


What she said.
Haha my friend and I are on emobucket at the same time (we have to different accounts)
but were werent playing attention cuz we were busy talking about kissing girls and how my ex cheated on me and how were gonna fuck up his face lol =]
& I said that but It was on her account not mine.
Haha now that you're all confused...

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RE: Is it better to have loved and lost? --Your Opinion--

by xolacieox on 08-24-2008 6:17 pm

I agree with the whole "depends" thing. Except I think it depends on how much you've lost.
For instance, if you loved this person with everything in your being and literally would not live without them, I would think its better to not have loved at all.
The whole "better to have loved and lost" part is for the people who can handle the loss.
But thats just my opinion. =/

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