Just wondering...I really really really reeaaaaally like this guy and he doesn't like me back I told him I would kill myself for him he said he cried about that but he still doesn't like me! HE'S THE ONE MADE ME START CUTTING! *cry cry cry* Is it worth it?

KittensKill wrote: No one made you start cutting, that was your choice.

And why would you even think of cutting?

It's not cool, it isn't "Emo", and it solves NOTHING.

it's not worth it.
why would you do that...for a guy? i don't understand it.
a guy is NOT worth hurting yourself over, EVER. or worth killing yourself over either.
in fact, nothing really is worth doing that.
stop doing it.
don't create problems for yourself because i guarantee, though you may think it's rational now, it really isn't in the slightest.
if this guy doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you. don't keep trying to make him guilty by saying you're going to kill yourself because of him whilst thinking that will get him to like you because it WON'T. if you keep doing it and in the end he's like, "yeah, i like you." then the only reason he would say that is because he did it out of pity and to prevent you from killing/hurting yourself. and i doubt you want that to be the reason you guys got together or whatever.
and if you really liked the guy, you'd respect the fact that he doesn't feel the same way and then leave him alone instead of making him feel miserable just because he doesn't happen to feel the same way.
besides that, you're only THIRTEEN and you still have a whole life in front of you dedicated to other boys who will like you and see you for who you are. why waste your time on ONE guy when he doesn't feel the same? just because he doesn't like you doesn't mean other guys won't. just be patient and the right guy will come along when you least expect it. =D
and if you're having a hard time getting over him, DON'T EVER RESORT TO CUTTING. eat an apple, watch a movie, go out with friends, write a story or something: anything to get your mind off of him. =]

Was it worth cutting yourself over a guy? No, it wasn't because he didn't seem to care or "give a damn" about you when you cut yourself. Some of people who posted said you're still young, and that is true, you are. Don't worry about "looking" for the right guy now, go and enjoy life. Let stuff happen on its own, its more rewarding. This might be kind of a lame analogy but here it goes. The prize in a box of cereal is more rewarding when you eat all of cereal before getting to the prize. You'll appreciate more than rushing, so just hang on...the right person will come along. "Its going to be okay"

hey, i know that it seems realy hard right now. i was there and did it too. but you know what i found out? after so long i just said forget it. if im not good for you then hey whatever. so i just lived and didnt go around him. did anything i could to get him off my mind. went out with frinds, hang out were i know he wasnt, cilled with family, and so on. after some time it got better. then one day i run in to him. we talked and want to know something? we have been together for 8 years now. all it took was me to just let it be. to show him i realy didnt need him. it would be nice to have him there but he didnt have to be. and guys realy like a girl that can do for themselfs and not have to have them there 24-7.
and no im not going to say that you are to yong. people dont want to hear that. i was realy yong when i was likeing punk so nope wont say that..lol..but what i am saying is injoy yourself. have some fun and you never know that mite be what hes looking for. a girl that well be herself and injoy it with or without a guy. and hey if it dont work then at lest you can have a friend.take what you can get.and sweetheart, you dont need a guy to make you happy.
well with all that i said i hope that i helped some.but its all up to you on how you take it all. and dont ever let a guy hold that powere over you. its not right. you need to live for you not some guy.i wish you the best of luck with it all...

Yes,it's totally worth it. If you just go on for long enough with cutting, he will fall in love with you, everything will be alright, you'll win a million dollars and there will be peace on earth forever.

KittensKill wrote: No one made you start cutting, that was your choice.

this was just needed here: