Ive been dating my boyfreind for like 3 months and a couple nights ago i wanted to call him but his sister was in the room and i hate talking to him aruond other people so i aksed him if he would ask her to leave(theres a point hidden in here i promise ) she texted me(and ive only got like 75 txts a day now too so this was also a waste) and asked why i wanted her out so bad. i said that when i dont talk to him for a while it makes me angry and depressed(It does ive never been so deprressed as i am now cuz hes at a church thing and i cant call him) and then we got in this huge fight and later when she finally left i called him and he said he was so pissed now not only was his parents(AND our BAND DIRECTOR for god sakes) trying to break us up she was too! He said his mom hates my family and thinks were all freaks(Which doesnt bothter me in the slightest) and thinks im ruining his life. He thinks that im only making his life better and i try to agree but sometimes i feel his moms right i mean hes cut sooo many times because he made me angry or cry or some crap like taht and i beg him not to but he does and i dont know i just feel so conflicted... I dont want to break up with him cuz i love him(IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO BE AN "ADULT" TO BE IN LOVE PISS OFF) but sometimes i think hed be better off if i did... Can anyone give me some advice or something please?

Yes, it is true...you don't have to be an adult to be in love (Where did you get that idea anyways?). Here is a funny, but interesting theory that I've been and seen. A relationship seems better when their parents hate you, and its crappy when the parents love you. Anyways, that was kind of off topic. Here is the deal, if you love him enough to deal with his parents crap that they put him and you through then shoot for it. If its going to be hell just stay with him then just let go. Your mental state is more important then dealing with his parents. Another thing, him cutting himself when you ask him not to is kinda like hes not respecting your wishes. He should be if he loves and cares about you, hes not hurting you, but only himself (Also making the situation worst). I hope what I've said helps, good luck with everything. "Its going to be okay"

AGREED! it is better when the parent's hate you rather than love you. but I don't think you should worry bout it until they make it where you can't talk or see each other. then you have a prob.

I know how you feel. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 months on the 24th and his mom hates me and my family just because i asked if he could go to my uncles funeral with me...she thinks were freaks and stuff like that but you just got to live life the way you want.

Well thats good cuz they really hate me... and usually he wont cut if i ask him not to its just when hes really upset but usually he wont, i mean thats how i asked him if hed be my boyfriend thats when i realized how much i loved him so i guess i should kinda thankfull... in a werid way... anyway... thanks : )