ok. so i had a boyfriend, but when it started,( a long time ago) my mom didn't want me to have boyfriends yet, so once she find out, (not that long ago) she wanted me to basically break up with him(she said like just stay friends until your ready or something)so, i told him i needed some space, and he acted all jerky about it and stopped talking to me( i guess he thought i really needed space, something) finally i didn't care what my mom thought and told him i loved him, well i don't know how true that was, but i wanted him back, i thought. but he told me his feelings had changed, and surprisingly enough, i was ok with that. (this was conversation was this morning). i really want to stay good friends with him, but i don't want him to think i'm just trying to be with him so he'll like me again. i really don't know what to do. not to mention i think i like another guy. i wondered if telling the 1st guy that i like the other guy will let him know i'm over him, but like i said, he's kinda jerky and i don't know if he'll keep my secret.

Just forget about the first guy. If he's moved on, why would he care if your over him? If he's such a jerk, then why even bother staying friends with him. Just move on and forget about him.

he's not such a jerk, he's just kinda immature and a little jerky about relationships. he's a really good friend, and i want to keep his friendship. i just don't want him to think i'm trying to get what i can out of him.

Oh, well, I doubt he thinks that. Just leave the matter alone and continue being friends. That's all you can do, really.

UrCarsOnFire wrote: Just forget about the first guy. If he's moved on, why would he care if your over him? If he's such a jerk, then why even bother staying friends with him. Just move on and forget about him.

Agreed

for get guy #1. he's not worth it.
if he's that immature forget about him.
yeh, I'm 13 too.
but I say don't worry so much about relationships too much.
that's what I used to do but it didn't work out too well.
probably stick to just liking guy #2 and hang out with your friends more.
trust me, it helps =)