Okay, I have no one to talk to about this kind of stuff so I don't know if I'm doing this wrong. Here goes: Recently, I realized that I'm *takes deep breath* fallinginlovewithmybestfriend. I don't know how it happened. One day, we were just friends and then the next day WHAM it hits me that I may like him as more than a friend. I'm not the type of person to act on these type of feelings. If things were different, I would try to ignore these feelings and hope they went away but I can't this time. Here's the thing, we don't act like we're just friends. Everyone thinks we're going out. Everyone. He's always holding my hand or hugging me or holding me. Does that sound like just friends? I don't think so but maybe I'm wrong. The other thing is that he says he has a girlfriend. If that's true, then I feel horrible 'cause if I had a boyfriend and he were holding hands with another girl, I'd be really hurt and pissed off. As you can see, I'm in way over my head. Can anyone help me?

Ooow, thats a pretty typical subject, old bestfriends turnin to couple.
Well,dont fight your feelings if youre sure that hes feelin the same way for you.Just let it go.But if you really dont want to ruin your relation ship, take it slow.Or forget about it.
Yet,Are you even sure that u actually like him?
And also, dont you think that maybe hes tryin to make jaelous?If he likes you too,maybe he wants evidences so he could talk to you about it without feelin that hes gpoin to be rejected or whateva.Do you know that girlfriend hes talkin about?

If you really want to stay friends with him don't go any further.Once you do act, if you have mutual feelings, and things don't end well your friendship will never be the same way again and you might even lose him as a friend and that really sucks.It happened to me so trust me it's not a very good idea.Maybe it won't turn out like that for you I hope, but I still caution you against doing anything.

Hm. He says his girlfriend goes to another school. Thanks for the advice. But I don't think I'm going to do anything. I mean, he's my best friend and I can't loose him. I don't know what I'd do without him so I think I'll just wait and hope that these feelings go away eventually. Thanks for the advice.

Lots of guys hold or hug other girls even if they're not into them


i learned that the hard way, oh, about 6 times.

Best friend love..
ew..
It never works out, so I wouldnt risk my relationship with my best friend.
personally.
I've done it before.. and it still kills me inside.

Been there, doing that right now. Its working for us.