PLEASE READ I NEED ADVICE!

PLEASE READ I NEED ADVICE!

by Klaivette on 07-16-2008 11:25 am

okay so im dating someone currently, but before i started dating them, i had this huge crush on someone for a long time, i mean he a friend, a good friend, but i dont think he knows yet....i think.....but the problem is i cant stop thinking about him...and i get really depressed when i see his pictures....cause it feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest (i havent talked to him nor seen him in 3 months, this summer.
What do i do!?!? please if you have some advice please tell me.
Love is like a game of checkers, You either get to feel the pleasure of victory, or the pain of defeat...

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by Anix on 07-16-2008 11:41 am

umm......you posted the issue in the wrong place.....but i can help ...awwww ..well do have his email addy? or a phone number....you could try n keep in touch withh im that way....but wait...are you happpy with ur boyfriend???...and what if you mess things up with ur bf or something for the sake of this crush only to find he just wants to be your friend??? ......know what im saying??
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by LadyWriterLover on 07-16-2008 3:10 pm

maybe you should try to see him or call him, if there is something between the two of you, than perhaps you should go for him. Be careful that you know for sure, cause you don't want to lose a good boyfriend
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by Klaivette on 07-16-2008 8:03 pm

well, i have his email, but his dad took away his computer, i have his number but im out of the state, and idk if i 'love' my bf, we just started dating, and idk how he feels about me.........
Love is like a game of checkers, You either get to feel the pleasure of victory, or the pain of defeat...

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by ManicPanicDestiny on 07-17-2008 6:35 am

[font=Arial Black]Next time you see him. just tell him straight up that you like him . !
For all you know he could be feeling the same. But you'll never know if you don' tell him.
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by Klaivette on 07-17-2008 10:39 am

im afraid to tell him cause he is my best male friend! and last time he said something really weird to me....he just flat out said....'im not ready for a relatioship'.....i thought it was really weird.....
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Re: PLEASE READ I NEED ADVICE!

by Candycain on 07-19-2008 10:42 pm

Klaivette wrote: okay so im dating someone currently, but before i started dating them, i had this huge crush on someone for a long time, i mean he a friend, a good friend, but i dont think he knows yet....i think.....but the problem is i cant stop thinking about him...and i get really depressed when i see his pictures....cause it feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest (i havent talked to him nor seen him in 3 months, this summer.
What do i do!?!? please if you have some advice please tell me.





You should try and talk to him again. Get to know him. Start from there and when you think its the good time to tell him (If you feel like telling him) tell him.) With this other guy just see what happens being with him.

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by Candycain on 07-19-2008 10:44 pm

as I said. Smile

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by XxSocialRejectxX on 07-21-2008 6:31 pm

I'm in a similar situation right now, only I'm not dating anyone. The person you're dating is a replacement of what you lost. To be honest I don't think you should be dating them. Do regain your ties to the person you like for sure though. I am trying to do so with person I love. Most would say I don't love him it's just a phase, but I know I love him. That's why I say you should definitely regain your bonds cause you never know what might happen...
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Re: PLEASE READ I NEED ADVICE!

by emolover713 on 07-22-2008 8:56 am

Klaivette wrote: okay so im dating someone currently, but before i started dating them, i had this huge crush on someone for a long time, i mean he a friend, a good friend, but i dont think he knows yet....i think.....but the problem is i cant stop thinking about him...and i get really depressed when i see his pictures....cause it feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest (i havent talked to him nor seen him in 3 months, this summer.
What do i do!?!? please if you have some advice please tell me.



tell him i just told my good friend brandon that i liked him and now we r dating

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