Squire wrote: I say many here confuse bisexuality with desperation.

That's right.

InnocentDemon wrote:

Classicfall wrote:

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LOL

I think that would be classified as pansexual.

Though, there isn't a choice for that on the list.
Also, I've never understood why the term "pansexual" exists, when being bisexual is basically the same thing.

There's only two genders for crying out loud...

Yeah kind of my thoughts too but I think pan sexual means they don't care about age or race or anything... (species?)


where as bisexual probably implies more that if I'm a young white bisexual that I like other young white people of either gender.



I don't know. I think bisexual is sufficient but maybe pansexual means they're more desperate.

I did give the option of "other" though because there's a limited number poll options.

rockitemokid wrote: I don't really know what my orientation is...
Guys totally turn me on, but every once in a while i get turned on by a chick..... It's so weird... I can't picture myself with a girl, I picture myself with a guy.
Hm.... Here's an example:
When I look at a guy, the first priority is to decide if he's hot or not, Then I talk to him to see what kind of personality he has..
When I look a girl, I want to see what she's like, then I decide if I like the way she looks....
I dunno... I can't imagine kissing a girl/ being with a girl... But all the same... I dunno I'm confuzzled....

rockitemokid wrote: I don't really know what my orientation is...
Guys totally turn me on, but every once in a while i get turned on by a chick..... It's so weird... I can't picture myself with a girl, I picture myself with a guy.
Hm.... Here's an example:
When I look at a guy, the first priority is to decide if he's hot or not, Then I talk to him to see what kind of personality he has..
When I look a girl, I want to see what she's like, then I decide if I like the way she looks....
I dunno... I can't imagine kissing a girl/ being with a girl... But all the same... I dunno I'm confuzzled....

Chloe the racoon wrote: ok, well, i need some support from someone friendly.
Lots of people keep saying im stupid because im bisexual.
They keep telling me "choose one or the other."
Im confused though-alot-sometimes i stay up at night crying because I feel so weird inside.
I like girls alot. But, i can't come clean to my parents or grandparents or cousins, i don;t even feel comfortable enough to bring it up around friends.
Last year, my friends (well, they're nice to me this year, we're all happy an supportive of eachother, but last year...) they made fun of me everyday at least once and it was very embarrasing, and then, my best frined took advantage of me, and just laughed at me and said "ewww your blushing-ur digusting!" because she used to whisper stuff in my ear, or start pulling down her shirt, and so-ofcourse-i blushed-and then she just laughed.
it was mean-and made me sad.
So now i feel totally uncomfortable everyday, and confused, and SUPER alone!
everyone always tells me to just be myself, but i try-and it doesn't make me feel any better!
I can't even tell my psychiatrst-i wish i could cuz she could probably help, but i don't like talking to people about it!
Can anyone help or support me?

cjs117 wrote: so i kissed my next door nieghbor awhile ago. her names taylor and we decide not to b to gather more like she decided that she wasnt into girls. but like a week later i walked in on my friend anna cutting her self an she like breaks down cry on my shoulder so oviously i try to comfort her and some freakin way everything got all fliped around and shes asking me about all this shit and somehow i let slip that taylor and me kissed. but now ppl are asking me if im bi and saying some1 told them i was. and quite honestly that dosnt realy bug me that much it just that i have a bf no and i dont no what he'll do if he hears :S and im not even freakin shure that i am bi. grrr... what em i supose to say to them and my bf. being bi or gay isnt exacely excepted in my skool

TeenageVampire wrote: Question: does lust for a girl mean your bi? cause i mean, ive kissed girls and liked it. ive pictured myself w chicks, and i can deffinetly get a bit horny w them around, but ive never been w one. ive been w dudes, so, if a am bi, does that mean i lean straight? god damnit this is confuseing!

xAllxRulesxBroken wrote: So,here's my story!

Well, I met this girl like a year ago (i knew i was bisexual but i was in denial) and i realized i had strong strong feelings fr her...so i gave up denying myself th truth. i'm 110% bisexual!!!


i don't have a problem telling peole,,,only my parents...

my dad is alwaystalking about how much he hates gays/lesbiens etc and how they should be gotten rid of...so i'm like really afraid to tell him...
when i told my sister (i was kind of forced to tell her... )she beat the living shit out of me, and she's younger than me...so if she's gonna do that then what would my dad do, right?


and it hurts because i want him to know,but i don't want to lose what connection we have left...plus if i tell him he'll blme it on my friends b/c they're lezbiens. and if i told my mom she'd send me to a friggen cathlic school even though i'm atheist...

so idk what to do...help?

xXxrainraingoawayxXx wrote: hw do u no if ur bi

xAllxRulesxBroken wrote: So,here's my story!

Well, I met this girl like a year ago (i knew i was bisexual but i was in denial) and i realized i had strong strong feelings fr her...so i gave up denying myself th truth. i'm 110% bisexual!!!


i don't have a problem telling peole,,,only my parents...

my dad is alwaystalking about how much he hates gays/lesbiens etc and how they should be gotten rid of...so i'm like really afraid to tell him...
when i told my sister (i was kind of forced to tell her... )she beat the living shit out of me, and she's younger than me...so if she's gonna do that then what would my dad do, right?


and it hurts because i want him to know,but i don't want to lose what connection we have left...plus if i tell him he'll blme it on my friends b/c they're lezbiens. and if i told my mom she'd send me to a friggen cathlic school even though i'm atheist...

so idk what to do...help?