ametc1 wrote:

The Black wrote: No matter what anyone says, relationships REQUIRE a sexual attraction, its nature. Do you think animals go "hey i think my mate has a good personality?" NO. Of coarse we're not animals, but we are meant to have sex and reproduce, which is something we can't do unless we are turned on, which can't happen with somoene you find really ugly unless you are really drunk, or they have a bag over their head, or your thinking of someone else.

I don't think ANYONE here would date someone they had absolutely no sexual attraction to. I think something about their bf/gf would HAVE to at least a little bit be attractive to the other person for it to work out. And everyone has their idea of what is beatuiful. There's no standard, but generally society can decide what is generally attractive and what is not. Convienently, I happen to find girls who are near the "accepted" veiw of beautiful, as the ones i think are hot, because i also see things like social status and style as really attractive things, because that is a part of someone's personality. I'm really not attracted to girls that everyone makes fun of or thinks are ugly because usually those people aren't too happy or confident in themselves, nor attractive.
I also want someone my own size, I don't want to be crushed in bed. I don't want to be like Norbit and Rasputia, who would? There are men who are sized just right for bigger sized wemon, and smaller ones for the smaller men. I want someone like me, and that's just not gonna be a "loser" unless its a magical one-of-a-kind "loser' that happens to be really hot and gets insulted alot for no reason at all, which makes no sense, so it never happens.

P.S. I happen to fall for girls who are considered whores alot, cuz despite the fact that everyone calls them a whore, and they aren't THAT attractive usually, but ok looking, i see their personality, and they're really the only girls i truly get along with and keep as friends even if they dont like me in that way. Slutty whores are people too. And it always seems i always have alot in common with them. Just sucks cuz they wanna always be slutty whores, or even sometimes really serious, with everyone but me, cuz i dont fit that 'hot guy thing' they go for...

hmmmm,
you know, reading that i actually see your point,
i don't think it's that your shallow,
just it's what turns you on,
like if you find someone with curves sexy then you want to go out with someone who is curvey, and not a stick insect,
and vice versa,
i personally hate 'stick insects'(aka, really skinny, boney chicks) and prefer chicks with curves, probably inspired by that most of the 'stick insects' i've gone out with were absolute bitchs,
it's all about what you like, if you like loud, ditsy girls, then you want to go out with loud, ditsy girls,
if you wanna go out with quiet, melancholy types, then yer, you want to go out with quiet, melancholy girls,
i personally would rather go out with quierky chicks, and if she happens to be 'idealistic' in appearence and yet i pass up a girl who isn't 'idealistic' in appearence,
that doesn't make me shallow,
i just like quierky girls lol,
does anyone see what point BLACK is trying to make?,
and the point i'm explaining as well?

ColdAndAlone wrote: I have a couple things to say to you...I HATE YOUR FUCKING GUTS!!! You're THAT shallow that you NEED a hot girl because they're the outgoing ones!? Stereotyping much! You can't just put all of the "so-called-hot" girls in one catagory. Most of the "hot" girls I unfortunatly come into contact with are self-centered, annoying, bitches who would care more about a puppy dying o the other side of the world than a person who looks "funny" having a heart attack at their feet. So don't give me that bullshit. It's guys like YOU that make me sick! YOU SHALLOW JACKASS!

Of coarse we're not animals, but we are meant to have sex and reproduce, which is something we can't do unless we are turned on, which can't happen with somoene you find really ugly unless you are really drunk, or they have a bag over their head, or your thinking of someone else.

HELLOSHiTTY wrote: I'm crying of frustration right now.







Seriously.
:C