catherinesidorenko wrote: I don't think I've ever been in love

because i don't consider it love when the other person doesn't love me back

Wow... I'm sorry about that

I've been in love once, but she didn't love me back. It took me 2.5 years to fall out of love with her, so I wasted loads of time chasing her which I could have used to try to find someone better for me

SOPHiASAURUSREX wrote: i think so.
.. who knowss.
he's my boyfriend.
should i love him?
but im also 13 and even i think that's a bit too young to call it "love."

yeah you're smart.
at 13 love is such an easy thing ppl throw around =/
atleast i think so.

Yeah...
It's the strongest and most dangerous word on the face of the earth other than Hate, and people just toss around both of those words like they're nothing with no regard for how badly people might be hurt.


And it's possible to truly be in love by 13 or 14, but chances are it's only going to be a simple middle/high school crush.

Exactly.
That was one of the things I hated sooo much in middle school
Was how people just went 'oh I love you I love you,' barely even knowing anything about that person, and maybe a week later they move on to another one. It's all.. silly haha

im in love with my girlfriend terra shes the best thing thats ever happened to ever

I'm recently falling out of love with my boyfriend of over a year now. I'm trying to get out of the relationship but I hate breaking his heart because I do love him.. I'm just not "in love" with him anymore.
Its a complicated situation that I'm sure will end horribly.

i was in that situation once. my girlfriend love me but she wasnt in love wit my so she just told my the truth i was sad for a wile but then i understod that a relationship cant go on if one of the members isnt in love any more

I would tell him now but I kind of live with him and have no where else to go if we break up.. unless I want to quit my job that I love and move to another state to stay somewhere that I'm not really wanted.
That sounds like I'm using him. Thats horrible. I'm not...
I've been trying for a long time to make things work between us so we are both happy but in the end I'm not happy and I need to face that fact that you can't force yourself to love someone.
But he cares more about his own feelings then mine so hes going to make me feel guilty.. plus I know he loves me alot... too much... I broke up with him once before and lets just say he went real emo and did some incredibly stupid things. I wish I could make him not care about me anymore.
Ha.. yeah right I'm too awesome to be not cared about. lol jk

oh that sux im sorry

Thanks but its ok. I'm optimistic about it. It might take some time but one day I'll be free and he will just have to get over it.
Thats life. As for now I'm trying to find a second job and some room mates so I can end it. Which is still hard because rent around here is crazy.

MetalSuicide wrote:

Phillipemo wrote: I gotta say at 17 Love is pretty much non existant like someone says I love you at this age they want in your pants so yeah as you can tell im not in love

Neither me or my girlfriend want sex, it's not a part of our relationship.

It's a bit ignorant of you to say that.

....now im in a bad mood

agh..

I agree with you.
That put me in a more bad mood then I already am....

I'm only 15 [Not yet 16] and I'm in love with my boyfriend
Although, his Mom hates us and trys to break us up, we're both trying our best to not let her.
Even though she might be making him go to a different school like 40 mins away and lose all contact with me
Which kills me inside...
But you know...I deal with it, because he's worth it.

the last girl i dated last year could date till she was 16 and we were 15 so we had to date secetly and we couldnt hang ecept for at school

SEXYBEAN wrote: the last girl i dated last year could date till she was 16 and we were 15 so we had to date secetly and we couldnt hang ecept for at school

That must have sucked.
Pretty much how it is now for me, except for the secret thing.
Haha.

But good news
My Dad might be finally letting my boyfriend move in
Since things have gotten so much worse.
Although he'll have to pay 200 rent, that's not hard to get with a job!

thats good ya never ever date some one secrety it sux so much now im dating the best girl ever

SEXYBEAN wrote: thats good ya never ever date some one secrety it sux so much now im dating the best girl ever

Yeah, it is good.
Now I gotta hope that Dad says yes that he can!

And that's good!
Nice that you're happy!