We (men) should avoid crying but I'm absolutely sure it happens to everyone - because of a lost friend, a girl, family and so on...

Veskou wrote: We (men) should avoid crying but I'm absolutely sure it happens to everyone - because of a lost friend, a girl, family and so on...

nah, i cry when i want to, but find it much harder to cry nowadays as maybe cos i'm older and a bit of past drug abuse has made me cry less for some reason.

used to cry if the slightest thing went wrong when i was 19 ish and was a complete wimp then. now only a certain things make me cry. and things that made me cry before i just get a empty blank feeling inside me, and nothing comes out, probably some damage done from drug abuse no doubt.
or maybe getting older i've just learnt to deal with it.

I think guys can cry as much as girls, you don't need to prove your hard by not crying, everyone does it, i have when me and a girlfriend broke up its normal =]

Its okay to cry when the need arrives, such as, grief over a lost love, whether in death or abandonment. Or as a last resort at redeeming yourself from something stupid you did to your significant other.
Otherwise, its quite emberassing and spells out faggotry.

jk, of course.?!
they should cry, it feels good cus it kinda cleans you out.
well, at least it does tah me[:
it's gay for a guy not to be able to cry.
it doesn't make you weak...i think it's adorable.

FlipThatEmoHair wrote: i think it's a turn-on.
it shows that they're not afraid to show their emotions.
only real men are secure enough in themselves to cry.
:]

wellll saidd.
[:

i dunno
i think not really

but i also think its a double standard that a girl could cry whenever she wants and get excused cause she's "a girl"

and when a guy does that in front of me i think it will be awkward cos
even i almost never cried in front of other ppl.

i think the last time i did that was in my grandma's funeral
and i wasnt even feel like crying its just like 20 other members of my big family was crying so lols

but overall i think it depends on the sitcon and the person you cry infront of

I hate crying in public. But I'm wondering why this is even in Emo Scene. What does this have to do with Scene people?

what the fuck?
okay cry when im not looking.
guys, yes its manly not to cry.
if u have any dignity at all, please dont cry at the wrong time.
sometimes at certain thing, like idk DEATH?
its okay to cry,
but sometimes it is cute.
depends on how the guy likes it.
guys can cry but at the wrong time its just stupid.

Of course guys can cry,
everyone cries.
It's human.

yes i love it when guys cry its like they don't seem so tough it kinda makes me liket hem even more