my best friend just told me that she was bi and has a gf....im bi and shes known that for a long time and ive always had feeling for her and never told her. now it feels like she ripped my heart out...it hurts so bad i love her

ouch.

That really sucks I'm sorry. But maybe you should talk to her, and ask her why she never told you. Then tell her how you really feel about her, and it hurt your feelings how she didn't even bother to tell you until now.

well, this is how i know things work. Like for me. I have friends like that where i want their friendship more than a relationship because friends are always there, and with a relationship you run the chance of fucking things up. So maybe she just wanted to be your best friend, and not your girlfriend.

hahahaaha

you ppl are funny
who fucking cares
if you have a problem
deal with it yourself

bringing other ppl into
it only causes problems
telling ppl shit only
gives them amo to stab
you in the back with.

ive learnt the lesson
so everyone else should
learn from my mistakes.

DONT TRUST ANYONE . EVER !!

they'll only brake your heart

&&FAGGbrainxx that was cruel. shes going thru a tough thing with her friend and all uve done is make her feel worse. no one on a random forum is gonna stab sumone in the back.. she came here cause she has no one else to confide in and she needs help.

First of all, I agree with x holdalvrclose x.

I understand you point &&FAGGbrainxx, and maybe you're right, people should deal with their own problems. But she isn't asking anyone to solve her problems. She just doesn't have someone to confide in, and she's only asking for advice, not for someone to deal with her problems. Who fucking cares? For one, I do. I don't know her, don't know anything about her, but I try to help the best I can and give her support when she needs it, because stuff like this is a great emotional impact, and has a bad tendency to evolve to self-harm, and, in extreme cases, suicide. I'm not saying she cuts, I'm not saying that she will one day, but there's a chance, and it's best to try and help people before it gets to that phase.

How does this give me ammo to stab her in the back? For one, as I said, I don't even know her. So it would be kind of hard for me to stab her in the back. And I have no interest in stabbing anyones back, for that matter. I just try to help people. Maybe it doesn't change anything most of the time, maybe it doesn't mean anything, but if I manage to help at least one person, I'm happy.

And lastly, the idea of "not trusting anyone, ever" is bad. Of course, you shouldn't tell all your private stuff to everyone you come across, but you should find at least one person that you can trust. Keeping everything bottled inside you is going to make you blow one day.

As for the topic, I think you should wait until that relationship ends, and then tell her everything you just shared with us. How much she means to you, how you felt when she told you she has a girlfriend... Just tell her everything.

wow jeez that is bad...im not gay/bi so sorry i cant see this from your shoes but like in any friendship/relationship, try and just talk to her about it?

Dudes. im sorry okay LOL. i was in a mood.. and my old best friend is a cunt.. so yeppas.. sorry huns XD

i think you should go for it and tell her. maybe she can be the one thinking exactly what you are. maybe shes just as wierded out. she can too be in love with you but is scared to lose you as a friend. as much feelings as you may possibly have for this chick, maybe its best you tell her but agree with her if she wants to stay friends. it might be awkward.

maybe when you told her you were bi she didnt know she was yet,or didnt admit it to herself.she might not have been ready to tell you.dont feel betrayed,even though it hurts.think of it that she trusts you enough to tell you this about herself.you cant stop loving her,and maybe one day you'll be able to tell her how much you love her and how much you care.she's your frend,be happy that she trusts you