if he tries to hit me again......

by seepingwound on 07-31-2008 7:30 pm

hisgoldeneyes wrote: Did you tell anyone?
If that's not like him, could he have been drunk, or god forbid, on drugs?
I don't know, I'm probably assuming the worst.


he wasn't drunk or anything of that sort....
and i just can't report him, he used to be one of my closest friends.

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by Strawberry Switchblade on 07-31-2008 10:01 pm

seepingwound wrote:
hisgoldeneyes wrote: Did you tell anyone?
If that's not like him, could he have been drunk, or god forbid, on drugs?
I don't know, I'm probably assuming the worst.


he wasn't drunk or anything of that sort....
and i just can't report him, he used to be one of my closest friends.


Friends don't hit you. Doesn't matter what he was, it's what he is now. i'd like to drill the fact that he WILL do this to other girls if he is not stopped. PLEASE for the sake of woman-kind, report him. If you'd like to look at it this way, you owe it to him for his future's sake. He needs to be put in therapy or he will not change, and this behavior will destroy him.
wake up, you're ALIVE

I'm running out of room
Don't make me say it
There is nothing left in me


Karma me, baby.

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RE: if he tries to hit me again......

by PunkRockPrincess4Life on 08-28-2008 11:13 pm

You need to get out.
I was in a relationship like that and you need to get out.
Espeically if you're always thinking about it and fearing being near him.
Because than its not a good relationship.
But first, I think I would confront him about it, even though its been a while. (Thats what I did, but right away.)
And he said his piece but things didnt get better they were better for a while then it went downhill.
Remember, just because he hasnt done it in a while doesnt mean it wont happen again.
...Thats something I overlooked...

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by loveteardroper703 on 08-30-2008 3:14 am

tell him exactly how u feel, and find out what triggered his aggression, and analyze and solve your issues together, if this dosen't stop hit his balls and dumb him



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Re: if he tries to hit me again......

by enigma on 08-30-2008 8:50 am

seepingwound wrote: I was having a bad day, and my boyfriend kept asking what was wrong, and I told him I didn't want to talk about it.

A few minutes later he asked me again, and i was thinking about it.
And he got this really.... empty look in his eyes, and he looked really angry.
(my dad used to hit me..and he'd get that look too, so it is quite familiar to me...)
So i was kindof expecting it, he raised his hand to hit my face, and i caught his hand and pushed him away.
Then i walked away feeling really bad.

I would've broken up with him already, but I've known him almost my whole life.
And he's never acted that way. Usually he's one of the nicest people i know....
I didn't think it was possible for someone to get so mad about something that small.
it was just.. so out of character.
And i care about him alot...
He hasn't done anything like that since, but i'm constantly thinking about it, and i find myself afraid to be around him.

i just.... i don't know what to do.


i dont care how mad someone gets at you or anyone!! you did nothing!! and he hit you, he got pissed cause you didnt give him what he wanted, you didnt answer him do he acted as a wuss you cant control himselve and hit someone who wouldnt hit him back...thats not rite!!!

having said that...people do change that may be the only time he ever hits you or anyone he cares about. you have to find out why he hit you...maybe he was beat when he was younger. you need to tell him how it hurts you that he would hit you when he cares so much about you! tell him about it an talk whith him, but you must let him know that your not a punhing bag for him when he cant handle his problems...

...thats just my opinion...

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by DarkeningShadows on 08-31-2008 1:39 am

seepingwound wrote: i talked to him about it...
or atleast i tried, and he hit my face, again.
hes been hitting me alot lately, so i broke up with him.
and now he's begging me to take him back, but i just can't.
i'm afraid him, and all i want him to do is leave me alone, and he won't........
this is killing me.
what am i supposed to do now



Okay.This is for everyone who is still posting here lately.
THIS.^ Is what her problem is now.Or was depending if she took action.
So please read this AT LEAST before posting if you ain't
gonna read the thread first.


Oh and yes,report him.I agree completely with Strawberry Switchblade.
But..wasn't this thread kind of "revived"?I thought it was dead..
~Whether you are homeless or heartbroken,pain is pain,and it hurts no matter what it is about.~

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by helena304 on 08-31-2008 6:10 pm

If he tries to a gene thane you should break up with him. You should feel safe with your boyfriend not scared. Try talking to him about it. If he does not seem to care you should not be with him. If my boyfriend did that to me I would give him one more chance and that’s all he would get.

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by SNIDE on 08-31-2008 8:12 pm

Unforgiveable wrote: It's showing that he really cares for you that's all. I think he did it because he cares about you so much.


Erm.....Right....."he hits you cos he cares....", nice line dipshit.

It's a toughy, maybe he felt powerless or something(because he couldn't help you) and got angry at that, But that's no excuse, that shows lack of self control, not a good quality. take the advice of Strawberry Switchblade and report him, chances are he will do it again to you or another woman or girl. It might not feel nice to do but it's the right thing to do.

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