seepingwound wrote:
I was having a bad day, and my boyfriend kept asking what was wrong, and I told him I didn't want to talk about it.
A few minutes later he asked me again, and i was thinking about it.
And he got this really.... empty look in his eyes, and he looked really angry.
(my dad used to hit me..and he'd get that look too, so it is quite familiar to me...)
So i was kindof expecting it, he raised his hand to hit my face, and i caught his hand and pushed him away.
Then i walked away feeling really bad.
I would've broken up with him already, but I've known him almost my whole life.
And he's never acted that way. Usually he's one of the nicest people i know....
I didn't think it was possible for someone to get so mad about something that small.
it was just.. so out of character.
And i care about him alot...
He hasn't done anything like that since, but i'm constantly thinking about it, and i find myself afraid to be around him.
i just.... i don't know what to do.
i dont care how mad someone gets at you or anyone!! you did nothing!! and he hit you, he got pissed cause you didnt give him what he wanted, you didnt answer him do he acted as a wuss you cant control himselve and hit someone who wouldnt hit him back...thats not rite!!!
having said that...people do change that may be the only time he ever hits you or anyone he cares about. you have to find out why he hit you...maybe he was beat when he was younger. you need to tell him how it hurts you that he would hit you when he cares so much about you! tell him about it an talk whith him, but you must let him know that your not a punhing bag for him when he cant handle his problems...
...thats just my opinion...