I have been thinking a lot lately about stuff, and I know i'm bisexual,
but I think I might be a lesbian. I do have sexual attraction to some dudes,
but I NEVER fantasize about them-the last time I did was once in a whole year, and afterwards I felt really disgusting. I'm embarrased about being bi anyway. I can talk to my friends and it's cool, but yeah-im embarrased. So, can someone help me?

I honestly cannot help you. No one can. You will know. Give it time and the answers will come to you.

Strawberry Switchblade wrote: Give it time and the answers will come to you.

just wait it out and give it some thought [not obsessively though]. don't feel pressured into suddenly making a decision about your sexuality right now. follow what your instincts are telling you. and don't be embarrassed about it =]

thanks you guys.
Well, when i think about it, i get kinda depressed though.
What do i do about that?
but, thank you!

Chloe the racoon wrote: thanks you guys.
Well, when i think about it, i get kinda depressed though.
What do i do about that?
but, thank you!

to be honest, dear, so do I. I think about it a lot, and it does bring me down sometimes. Why? I don't know. I feel like I want answers, but I don't know the questions.

Be whoever you want to be; it doesn't matter.

Although I've never had this problem myself, (I've never been confused about my sexuality; I've always known I'm straight) my mom went through the same thing. The entire experience made her a better person.