What should you do when you finally get the courage to tell soemone you love them...in my case, one of my guy freinds who i still kinda feel for...but he doesnt know....
....but end up saying it so quietly into thier jacket when they're hugging you and you think they didnt hear you, but you can't be 100 % sure they didn't hear you, becasue like right after you whispered so, they hugged you tighter. But they did the same thing (hugged you real tight) when you first got to see them that day and you didnt say anything at all other than "hey ,so and so"
*ugh!*
I'm confused.

Awww, thats romantically confusing. It sounds like something that you would hear in a movie.
It really is very cute, and I think that if they hugged you tight, then there some sort of chemistry.
I believe it's very hard to tell someone that you love them, when you know it might put something at stake, since in your case it's a friendship.
But I hope everything works out for you.
c: It sounds like it will.

I think that if you really want to be sure, and you're like, don't caring a shit anymore you just wanthim to know. you should call and say without chitchat:

you: hey guy friend's name
he: oh, hello!
you: I love you.
he: .. [you'll know from his reaction what he says. Or hang up the phone then, so confusing it for a joke isn't a possibility and see what he texts back or wait for him to call back.

It is most effective, but you surely need an impossible amount of courage.

But more possibility's aren't left, at least I can think of none.

Haha.
Dood that so conspicuas.
I mean really.
That's not even romantic.

Haha you guys are so crazy.
I dunno. We are really close friends but when I asked him out over a year ago he turned me down because he said he wasnt interested in me romantically, but that i was a really great freind. i dunno tho. lately every time i see him he hugs me so tight... but that could just be because he's going off to college in a couple months and i won't see him much after he leaves....
*sigh*

i say to tell him again. loudly this time. As hard as it may be. do it before he leaves and you might get a relationship out of him

ThatTokenBlakEmo wrote: i say to tell him again. loudly this time. As hard as it may be. do it before he leaves and you might get a out of him

That's what I tried to say. But I said it the NOTromantic way. (the chemical way, I think that's the best name)

Yeah, I think I will, as soon as i get to see him again. I wish he was on IM right now for me to talk to. I wonder tho if it's any kinda obvious that i do still kinda see him in a special kinda way, becuase when i was at his house (with two of my other friends) i went to hug him bye and i guess i stood there for awhile hanging all over him becuase my other freind started singing "a,b,c,d," and giggling.


and i highly doubt i'd get a relationship out of him. I'm not even sure how i mean it. i mean, i love hugging the guy and all, and i love him loads but I'm really not sure if i'd want more than that...