I Can't Get Over Him</3*Sigh*

I Can't Get Over Him</3*Sigh*

by PunkRockAngel4Life on 10-01-2008 9:11 pm

*Sighs*
Okayy, so about four months ago more or less.
I posted a topic about a boy named Daniel and almost everyone that replied said that Daniel seemed to be the one for me and that he was coming back. I was glad to hear that because my friends and his friends were saying that also and that's what I wanted to believe.
*sighs*

But here we are now six months after the break up.
I can't get over him. </3
In fact my sig, is all about him.
:[ The way he laughs, the way he talks breaks my heart all over again and my heart wasn't even done breaking.
I can't sleep, I can't eat, I'm always sad, I think I'm losing it.
But because I walk with a limp I'm scared of being alone forever plus I think I'm ugly....
I don't want to be alone so I have no choice but to be stuck, but that's killing me.
:'[
Help.

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by Academyofliars on 10-01-2008 9:23 pm

Girlfriend, you're 13-years-old. You may think that the world is ending, but the truth is, you'll have many more break-ups and many more relationships in your life. Being all depressed over one guy that you were dating in middle school is completely stupid. Instead of thinking about something that you can't change, think about another guy that you can meet and hang out with. Crying and thinking about one guy for the rest of your life isn't going to get you anywhere. Chances are, you aren't going to marry the guy you dated in eighth grade. It's been six months. He's over it, now you need to get over it.
And I've seen your pics. You're not ugly.

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by PunkRockAngel4Life on 10-01-2008 9:30 pm

Academyofliars wrote: Girlfriend, you're 13-years-old. You may think that the world is ending, but the truth is, you'll have many more break-ups and many more relationships in your life. Being all depressed over one guy that you were dating in middle school is completely stupid. Instead of thinking about something that you can't change, think about another guy that you can meet and hang out with. Crying and thinking about one guy for the rest of your life isn't going to get you anywhere. Chances are, you aren't going to marry the guy you dated in eighth grade. It's been six months. He's over it, now you need to get over it.
And I've seen your pics. You're not ugly.

Well, I'm not pretty.
And walking with a slight limp is gross.
& I know how guys work by now and I always get rejected or used and cheating on.
There's a long story behind Daniel and I and it makes things hard.

Sometimes, I think I should just give up...

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by Academyofliars on 10-01-2008 9:35 pm

First off all, stop with the self-pity. Limps are not gross. It's part of who you are, and you should embrance that. Guys might find it cute.
Second, and once again, YOU'RE STILL A KID. This is MIDDLE SCHOOL. I thought I was in love with this guy last year, when I was in eighth grade. He seemed like he was the best guy in the world, and I was pretty sure I was in love. Then I found out he was cheating on me, and I got all depressed and started crying all the time. Then I realized how pointless it was to get all upset over something that I couldn't change.
You just have to move on. It may seem hard and unfair, but life isn't fair. You can't change it, don't cry about it.

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by KittensKill on 10-01-2008 9:36 pm

PunkRockAngel4Life wrote: Sometimes, I think I should just give up...


please do

you make 1-2 threads in help and advice every day... it makes you look like an attention seeker.

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by casperONFIRE on 10-01-2008 9:37 pm

Get the fuck over it.

Your still a kid. You shouldn't be worrying so much about boys, all little kids do and IT PISSES ME OFF.
You think you love this guy, well I got news for you: What you call love now wont be in two years time. You're still imature, and while you think this is love I can most certainly garantee its not.

Yeah hate me for bearing the truth for all I care. But you need to hear this.
When I speak I speak the truth.

So you know, yeah you can be a bit sad. But seriously its not the fucking end of the world.

Grr. Now go outside and play, kid.
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