i am SO confused

i am SO confused

by StayTragic on 11-19-2008 7:45 pm

ok, so my best friend and her boyfriend just broke up last week. her ex-bf is my best guy friend and i've known him for 7 years.i've also liked him since then...

the problem-Our Convo-
we've been spending alot of time talking and well...

ben: can i umm tell u something serious??
katy: yeah
ben: can u promise u wnt tell n e 1...exspecially tanner
katy: i promise
ben: i uh...katy i kinda like u a lil

ben: well when i was with summer i didnt rlly like except 1 time u member tht feild trip 2 th aqurium??
katy: yeah? btw, its aquarium, lol
ben: well alot of tht feild trip i wanted 2 well...kiss u...nd u kno i have bad spelling
katy: oh, umm...now THAT is shocking...and yeah, i know you do
ben: yea...it was weird jus i couldnt help but wonder wut itd b like...idk

ben: yea...i kinda jus wanted 2 like tlk but just like u nd me u kno??...idk it was weird cuz i knew if i did kiss u id feel bad 4 doing tht wile bein with summer nd i knew id feel bad 4 doin tht 2 tanner

katy: yup...i hate my laugh, it annoys me.
ben: huh thts funny cuz i think its kinda cute when u squeak like tht

ben: o...i c...nd if u didnt notice i kinda let tht out 2day tht i thought u were cute cuz well...when u said u were cute nd innocent i said it was half true
katy: i know...i was thinking about that afterward...


sorry that was so long, but i'm not sure what to do. i mean, i really like him too, knowing someone for 7 years makes them really mean something to you. but i have a bf (his best friend) and it's just...confusing...please help!
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RE: i am SO confused

by bleeding black on 11-19-2008 9:04 pm

I would suggest staying with your boyfriend.
If you leave him for his bestfriend then you will feel bad in the end.
If you have been friends for 7 years, then you can most likely stay friends and even though that it might be a little weird considering that you know that he likes you, it will probably be for the best.
You could maybe even help this Ben with finding a new girlfriend if he and you were willing.
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by Lillith on 11-19-2008 10:17 pm

this ben guy im sure will understand everything that you told us. you need to talk to him.
and do what you feel is right. no one on here but you knows what that is. sorry dear.
this is some thing that we cant help with sorry. but we can say nice things to make you feel better about it if you want. thats about it. sorry if this sounds mean im not trying to be. im not a mean person if you ask around you will see. but i truly think you are the only one that knows rwhat to do now.
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by Lil homie on 11-20-2008 3:12 am

*ask around* whose tanner?

anyway i think you should ask yourself, whose more handsome? lol just playin bruh.
ask yoself who ya really care fo. and this ben dude's a playa from what i see him
typin, yawknowwhatimsayin? dont be no fool for nobody lol. just my 2cents aight?

and yeah he cant spell fo sho

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