how does one go about impressing another.
is it possible to change someones opion of you after they already have one.
her opion about me is not bad im "her best friend",
and as greatfull as i should be, i still want t die, shes my only reason for living and she makes me want to die, hahaha
so tell me no, and ill just give up like i know i should, or ill try to impress her with whatever ideas the emobucket has and fail, and then give up.
haha
but seroiusly.

i love her, (i swear) and she just thinks we should be best friends...

try not to take "impressing" the wrong way, which will make it seem like you are showing-off. You always being yourself right?

Hmm, yes, the friend situation.
Not a nice place to be.
The answer is yes, it is possible to get out of, but is usually quite difficult.
However, I currently have no idea of how you might go about doing that.
Chin up, keep trying.

evotion wrote: try not to take "impressing" the wrong way, which will make it seem like you are showing-off. You always being yourself right?

umm, yeah, i overthink and overcontemplate everything, i wouldnt do anything i think would repel or turn anyone off. the problem is what i think and what people think seems to vary more than i think, haha
anyways, yes im always my self, which is why this topic is self contradictory, if i do anything thats not myself then when i impress her (if, im just runing thourgh the possibiliteas) then ill stop acting and go back to bieng my self and he wont like it.

so i will rephrase myself.
not impress her.
how do i permantly change myself for the better, but thats a bit more diffucalt.

what??? don't change yourself!!! no no no thats all wrong. if she can't like you for who you are then i don't think that girl is worth dieing for. but if she already appreciates you for who you are then thats reall what matters does that make sence???

chin

plur49 wrote: what??? don't change yourself!!! no no no thats all wrong. if she can't like you for who you are then i don't think that girl is worth dieing for. but if she already appreciates you for who you are then thats reall what matters does that make sence???

chin

no, its not about me.
im inferoir, im not good enough, shes better than me, saying i should find someone that likes me for me is just saying i should settle for someone only as good as me, and not as good as her....

XxXsafeinsidemymindXxX wrote:

plur49 wrote: what??? don't change yourself!!! no no no thats all wrong. if she can't like you for who you are then i don't think that girl is worth dieing for. but if she already appreciates you for who you are then thats reall what matters does that make sence???

chin

no, its not about me.
im inferoir, im not good enough, shes better than me, saying i should find someone that likes me for me is just saying i should settle for someone only as good as me, and not as good as her....

wha????? i'm not saying that at all!!! i'm saying if she doesn't like you for the way you are then she's prbably not as good as you think she is. and also stop putting all this emotion inward. you are as good as her. hell probably even better. she just either doesn't know it or is just not smart enough to figure it out. just be your self. don't change just cuz someone wants you to change. does she really want you to change??? or do you assume she does and are just going to change for her?? what if you change for the worst man??? what then???

chin

plur49 wrote:

XxXsafeinsidemymindXxX wrote:

plur49 wrote: what??? don't change yourself!!! no no no thats all wrong. if she can't like you for who you are then i don't think that girl is worth dieing for. but if she already appreciates you for who you are then thats reall what matters does that make sence???

chin

no, its not about me.
im inferoir, im not good enough, shes better than me, saying i should find someone that likes me for me is just saying i should settle for someone only as good as me, and not as good as her....

wha????? i'm not saying that at all!!! i'm saying if she doesn't like you for the way you are then she's prbably not as good as you think she is. and also stop putting all this emotion inward. you are as good as her. hell probably even better. she just either doesn't know it or is just not smart enough to figure it out. just be your self. don't change just cuz someone wants you to change. does she really want you to change??? or do you assume she does and are just going to change for her?? what if you change for the worst man??? what then???

chin

then i dont care, but i already dont care, so doesnt really change anything.
she is as amazing as i think, youl have to take my word for that one.

if you already don't care then why did you post this thing in the first place??? i'm moving more and more into the dark void of confusion.

chin

ooh dangerous addiction.ya i've been there.

don't try to impress her.you cood end up seeming fake and insencere.and anyways know one shood have to change for someone else.

you can still love her and be her frend.its not like a "one or the other" scenerio.

and just cause she wants to be your best frend doesnt mean that she doesnt love you.sje can still relle care about you without it being a relationship.knowing that she considers you to be her best frend shood be enough

oh and don't give up.dont fucking ever give up,its a bad idea.

ya hope i helped at least a little

untilthestormpasses wrote: ooh dangerous addiction.ya i've been there.

don't try to impress her.you cood end up seeming fake and insencere.and anyways know one shood have to change for someone else.

you can still love her and be her frend.its not like a "one or the other" scenerio.

and just cause she wants to be your best frend doesnt mean that she doesnt love you.sje can still relle care about you without it being a relationship.knowing that she considers you to be her best frend shood be enough

oh and don't give up.dont fucking ever give up,its a bad idea.

ya hope i helped at least a little

its not a "bad idea" although im not going to.
and sure saying that bieng her friend shuld be enough is fine like i said i should be fine with it but i cant control my feelings that much and i still want to die over it.

you love her so much but you want to die?and how do you think that'd make her feel,knowing her frend died cause of his feelings for her.prolly like shit.you're not going to be able to stop loving her,jsut because you can't have her.it doesn't work that way.in time she might start liking you,or she might just continue to be your frend.but you can't try and impress her into liking you,cause then what wood the relationship be based on?