how can i get them to leave me alone

how can i get them to leave me alone

by Citrus Blood on 01-26-2008 4:20 pm

my parents seem to have a problem with everything i do
like my hair, they thought i was crazy, the way i dress, they even have a problem with my shoes. its starting to get really annoying
now they just wont leave me alone, they're always nagging me and they're watching me like a hawk, and they're getting so overprotective over nothing!!! They think im going to end up like a bum, and they think everything black is bad. And its really pissing me off

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by XxBrokenxPeicesofxYOUxX on 01-26-2008 4:30 pm

that must suck... Sad
Maybe there just concerned for your well being...but the thing about black being bad and hating the way u want to dress is crazy...they should at least give you a little space to be an individual >.<

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by Classicfall on 01-26-2008 4:31 pm

Well it sounds like they just care about you alot.

So show them that emo doesn't always have to be "dark". Lot's of emo music is filled with positive feelings aswell. Point out the lyrics to your parents. Smile

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by Citrus Blood on 01-26-2008 4:32 pm

thats what they dont know how to do
they are trying to make me like them, they want me to like what they like, i told my parents this, but they just denied it

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by XxBrokenxPeicesofxYOUxX on 01-26-2008 4:35 pm

so theyre trying to mold you into themselves.... =S

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by Citrus Blood on 01-26-2008 4:36 pm

yes
thats it
its really, extremely annoying

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by Classicfall on 01-26-2008 4:38 pm

So tell them that you'll still love them just as much if you listened to different music, or dressed differently.

It sounds like they need to be reminded that it's who you are inside that really counts. So tell them that if you think they need to hear it. Smile

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by XxBrokenxPeicesofxYOUxX on 01-26-2008 4:39 pm

i think theyre being way to over pretective...i mean, its your life and your decision how u want to look or dress...

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by Citrus Blood on 01-26-2008 4:46 pm

i do love them but
i just want to be alone from time to time and make decisions on my own

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by Sweet Carnage on 01-26-2008 5:08 pm

Oh god, my parents are sort of like that haha! While they don't limit what I do, they give me crap for it. They even talk behind my back, and assume I won't be able to do anything.

Honestly, the best thing you can do is do REALLY well in school and show them you have a clear, positive goal in your life (even if it's a lie)

Parents like that crap a lot more then they like or care about your personal life.
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by cutinizmahonlyreleaze on 05-12-2008 4:18 am

Oh your life is so tough, your parents actually love you enough to give a shit about what you look like and how you present yourself. Maybe they're saying that because you actually do dress like a retard.

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by lostandconfused on 05-12-2008 3:56 pm

Even though Cut comes off as a prick, he's right. Your parents care about you and that's why they care about how you dress.
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