I broke up with my short term boyfriend a few months ago, and a couple of weeks ago we met up and I thought we'd be fine, and we went back to his for a bit and we ended up having sex...and the same thing happened the next week but this time I was upset about my grandad's death (he passed away due to cancer a few days earlier) and he took total advantage of my state.

I wouldn't care but he doesn't speak to me in college and he doesn't even come near me...I know this is harsh but I really hate him for doing this...HELP!!!!!

let me get this straight he used u for sex... hmmmmmmm, but u said sex as in consensual? well in that case he didnt really use u becuz if it was consensual then u wouldve opened your legs... all i have to say is u shouldve waited till marriage becuz most people ur age arent emotionally ready for it... and u can catch an std if he is sexually active with other women. im sorry i really couldnt help u on this 1... hope everything turns out fine