He dumped me...and he blames me

OK my ex dumped me on Saturday just gone because I told my best friend that the week before he was being suggestive, basically he was making it blatantly obvious that he wanted to sleep with me and I kept telling him no.

But he kept persisting, so when he went home the next day more or less I told my mate and even she said that it was wrong and a bit forward.

So when he found out that I told her he kept trying to ring me (but I wasn't well so I was asleep when he rang) then when I woke up I saw I had a text on my phone and he had said that he didn't like the fact I told my friend about Saturday and he thought that we should split up, so not only did he dump me but he couldn't face me so he dumped me through text...even my friends mum said that was terrible, and everyone thought he was a psycho anyway (especially my dad) so they were happy I'm no longer going out with him.

But what really pisses me off is the fact that he'll talk to my mate in person, and over msn but when I went to talk to him y/day in IT he ignored me completely...I ended up yelling at him in class and it resulted in me shouting 'well fuck you' after he said something that was totally inappropriate and me storming outta the class (mid-lesson as well) and now I don't think I'll ever talk to him again because of it.

But I heard Simple Plan's latest single last night (When I'm Gone) and I realised it was connected to my situation and that I'll probably get over it but he won't...I feel really bad...can someone talk to me please...bot necessarily about this but just a general chat.

xox

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if he was acting like that he don't deserve u he is just a jerk
so what if u tell that to ur friend it's ok if he really loves u he will understand that is my opinion

A persistent guy like him doesn't deserve you.

Some guys just don't understand, theres a difference between love and lust.

well...i dont know you but i think its good that you split up, because most guys dont care about girls they just want to bed them. so 70% of guys are like that. just look for one of those guys that is in that 30% of respect.

He obviously cares only about sex. Just forget him, he's not worth the effort.

xxrazorxx wrote: He obviously cares only about sex. Just forget him, he's not worth the effort.

I like the way you think

only look for personality and humour =D

now now now people... it is in human nature to have certain lust, not that i can relate to his lust, i mean sheesh, who would want to stick his puple puthyon in someoen who calls herself Slash X Whore, but thats besides the point.

now here are some tips to improve your life:
#1 - stop cutting yourself.
#2 - dress like a sane person.
#3 - dont log in on this forum after you have read this post. ever again.
#4 - get yourself together... i mean sheeesh...

lollerbarnet wrote: now now now people... it is in human nature to have certain lust, not that i can relate to his lust, i mean sheesh, who would want to stick his puple puthyon in someoen who calls herself Slash X Whore, but thats besides the point.

now here are some tips to improve your life:
#1 - stop cutting yourself.
#2 - dress like a sane person.
#3 - dont log in on this forum after you have read this post. ever again.
#4 - get yourself together... i mean sheeesh...

Wow, I really can't wait to see you get banned

Cool thanks...that has actually made me feel better so that now means I'm single...and potentially looking...any offers?