Caught between two guys....

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any advice?

write a list of ur favourite qualities of both of them and see who has the longer list. i know it sounds corny... but it works XD srsly. and also listen to ur heart.

okay... i'll try that... thanks

lol. that's happened to me b4.
i didn't know what to do either,
but one broke up w/ me b4 i could do nething.

well its a hard thing but you should try and take the time to think of both and list the best qualities of both and see who will treat you rigth the way you want and how you should be treated and which will love you the most

hmm. i should do that..
one thing that one of my friends that go his school told me
that when he dates someone he gets possessive and controlling.
but i try to put what she said at the back of my mind whenever
i see him cause everything she says that i believe since we're good friends,
i end up forgetting when i see him cause he seems perfect. I keep telling
myself that he wouldn't be like that if we went out but i'm not completely sure..

But my boyfriend though, I really don't want to leave him.. because we have everything
in common.. and he was my best friend for two years before we started dating.. so breaking up
with him, would mean losing our once really good friendship. So i guess it's obvious that i should
stay with him?

Or maybe get to know this other guy better and try to find these "possessive and controlling" things
on the way to see if my friend was right.

its happening to me too~
i have no idea wad to do...
sighs~
i love him..i mean my boyfriend..but...
its lyk..he doesn't care about me....his so COLD and....just ignores everything i say..
sighs~~~~
this other guy just asked me to be his girlfriend...and i....kinda accepted him..
GOSH!!! wad do i do now???
=(

chengi wrote: its happening to me too~
i have no idea wad to do...
sighs~
i love him..i mean my boyfriend..but...
its lyk..he doesn't care about me....his so COLD and....just ignores everything i say..
sighs~~~~
this other guy just asked me to be his girlfriend...and i....kinda accepted him..
GOSH!!! wad do i do now???
=(

dump the mean boyfriend. you deserve someone who treats you better. that way you're not dating two boys, but whatever makes you happier though. I think i solved my problem.. i'm staying with my boyfriend because i love him too much..

Im in a quite similar situation, but Im not dating non of these guys.
Im OBSSESSED with a guy, but I had a bestfriend who now is in love with me =/ ... I love both, but I just cant take the first guy off my head...

So I decided just to let things be.
Im hoping for it to work, 'cause sometimes is the best you can do, just let happen what should happen, and thats all.