Uhm.. Ok well like, me and my boyfriend broke up last week. Before we broke up, we were goin out for 9 months and 18 days. He dumped me because he said I wasn't worth it anymore. Idk if he meant it or not, but it hurt me. A lot. As well as the break-up.. Well like, I hurt him a few times in the past, but I thought all of that was in the PAST, not still with us. He said they were scars that he can't get rid of. And that just made me feel like the worst person ever,..I'm already a bad person,what more pain can I get ? Soo like,I felt really bad for that. But he just out of nowhere said, that it was over. Done. No more. I was terribly hurt. I still am. We're friends with benefits.We act like we're dating. He still says I Love You a lot and stuff. But I wanna be more than friends. I wanna be how we were. Being that cute couple people knew us by. I love him.. A LOT. And he says he loves me..But for some reason, when he says it, I feel like I can't believe him...I just felt like-oh gawd, I can't even explain it. He's all I ever wanted. Now he's partly gone..I can't get rid of him. I don't want to...I just don't know what to do now...Anyone ? Help ?
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwww, i know how you feel
almost the same thing happened to me
but what you HAVE TO DO
is talk to him about why you guys broke up
if he says he lves you,
why dd he break up with you
and why does he still makout with you and stuff
why are you "not worth it"
and sweeetyyyy,
everything will prolly be fine

im here if you need to talk

I think your ex isn't worth going after since he has gotten over the relationship but still says 'he loves you' but you still feel the lying in his voice which is fallacious and deceiving so don't give into it and move on!

awwwww poor gummibear maybe you should find some one im in the "moving on" process but i would give him a little time to chill but if he was a jerk than dont give him that chance to do anything with you b/c if he really loves you than he'll respect what you want. i hope things work oput btw there is no such thing as bad people every body makes mistakes

i say give him the boot.
he's obviously not really in love with you
and he's just looking for some action.
but
i mean
if you weren't worth it
then why was he with you for so long?
obviously you were
and obviously he just wanted to hurt you
to get back for those times you hurt him.
guys are like that.
they never forget when you hurt them,
whether you mean to or not.
they hold grudges, and somehow
you have to make him believe that you are sorry
or just say 'screw you'
and leave him completely.