B yourself or fit in with non scene friends?

I don't dress scene at all. Personally I don't think u have 2 dress scene to be emo, as long as you b yourself. Do u agree or think that's BS? I thought about dressing in all my rainbow stuff and tutus but I don't think I would fit in.Do u think my friends would still like me if I dressed differentally? The rainbow stuff is me but I'm worried that noone would b my friend if I was different. Should I break away from the pack of nonscenes and b myself or stick with the other stuff I wear?

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thats BS.

emo is the music NOT the fashion or culture.

dress how you wanna dress.

don't give me crap about using different terms! How else am I supposed to say it without saying "emo"?! Look, I need help so don't give me crap, I'm confused and don't know what to do.

then tell me, what the fuck is emo?

how can you be emo?

Fine,let me rephrase that, I don't think u have to dress scene to fit into the lifestyle. R u fucking happy now?!

what lifestyle?

scene is just a fashion

i understand what colorfulemochick means.

in MY school its easy to see who the "scene" kids are.
none of them call themselves emo but everyone else does.
they are a fan of catagories though. one calls herself retro punk.
people use emo not to comment on their clothes but their identity in the school.
to people here emo doesnt mean music at all.
scene doesnt mean anything at all. its just a 5 letter word out media teachers use.

at my school alot of them are starting to wear ALOT of colourful clothes.
its kind of kewl. the way to stick to the same identity as them depends on how your wearing there colours.
shoes: convers comes in plenty of colours.
skinny jeans at places like jayjays come in colours like red green etc etc
shirts yeah are easy enough to find
and there are plenty of accesories.
all these clothes look scene enough but none have to be just black!!!

and KK should stop the interogation. if you dont like the conversation then dont antagonise people.

good luck! dress however you are on the inside

Thank u, u were a lot of help!

stupidemo wrote: and KK should stop the interogation. if you dont like the conversation then dont antagonise people.

interrogation? i was trying to get a clarification, and i never said i dint like the thread.

stupidemo wrote: good luck! dress however you are on the inside

mmm ya, blood and gore.

better advice: dress how you want to, why should you care what people think?

Wow...First, learn to use proper English.

Second,
WHAT.
THE.
FUCK!?

Since when has it been a good idea to do something just to please others?
Ugh...what the hell.
This is seriously pissing me off.
Look, not everyone will like what you wear, what you look like, or what you do.
You need to do what makes you happy [and that your parents allow] and fuck anyone who gives a damn.

If someone is going to be your friend based on what you look like or how you dress, do you really think they'd be that good of a friend?
Trust me, NO.

colorfulemochick wrote: I don't dress scene at all. Personally I don't think u have 2 dress scene to be emo, as long as you b yourself. Do u agree or think that's BS? I thought about dressing in all my rainbow stuff and tutus but I don't think I would fit in.Do u think my friends would still like me if I dressed differentally? The rainbow stuff is me but I'm worried that noone would b my friend if I was different. Should I break away from the pack of nonscenes and b myself or stick with the other stuff I wear?

wear what you want.
as long as you like yourself and your own style, that's what matters.
true friends don't judge based on your fashion sense.

HxC FiALURE wrote: You need to do what makes you happy [and that your parents allow] and fuck anyone who gives a damn.

seconded.

If someone is going to be your friend based on what you look like or how you dress, do you really think they'd be that good of a friend?
Trust me, NO.

Hey, if people were only friends with other people coz of the way they look, then I'd have no friends at all.

Yeah.. true friends doesn't care about the way you dress.
Most of my friends don't dress scene and I look really different from them, but i don't really care..

i know someone who got rid of his dreadlocks and made his hair very scene.
he lost some of his friends coz of a HAIRCUT!!!
they didnt want to hang out with an "emo"

of well he still has a tonne of friends anyway.