I don't know whether i am straight or bi, I get aroused when I see boys kissing, and sometimes get a...well you know.
I don't know what i am anymore, sexually, emotionally, and by the look of my wrists, physically.

I don't care one way or another. To me it doesnt matter on the gender it matters on the person.

it depends here are some facts:
gay= u like just boys and shit like that
bi= u like both sexes
straight= u just like oppisite
thats basically it hope u find it helpfull

May be u are straight and like experimenting... or may be u are just bi... it doesnt matter what u are as long as u are happy with it

[quote="RunningToAnguish"
I don't care one way or another. To me it doesnt matter on the gender it matters on the person.[/quote]

welcome to the club my friend. bi people think exactly what you wrote up there. it is the person that matters not the gender, race, religion, etc... love should be universal not bound to one characteristic in particular. yay you can be my new bi friend? that is, if you decide to be bi. it's not my decision to make, but it sure sounds like you are bi <3.

im not bi but I think just like you,
I cant stand people who cant accept you for what you are
*sigh*

you sound bi to me
unless you lost all attraction for women

Angel Of Sorrow wrote:
I cant stand people who cant accept you for what you are

O_o? wha-wha-what?

Angel Of Sorrow wrote:
unless you lost all attraction for women

hehe not quite my friend, not quite

>DiamondintheRuff< wrote: that is, if you decide to be bi. .

Not sure I have a choice in the matter. :]/:[

u got a choice its your life
if somethings making u think u cant be some way screw it like what u like let it be male female or a bag of soxs love what u feel u want to love

i think i might be in the same boat as you..
i'm really not sure though. i've only been attracted to one girl and it was maybe just a phase..?

RunningToAnguish wrote:

Angel Of Sorrow wrote:
unless you lost all attraction for women

hehe not quite my friend, not quite

good good, for women are gifts from heaven

there is in fact bisexuality and bicuriosity...but i think you're bi.
nothing at all wrong with that.

im gonna say things brutally honest. if you decide to come out of the closet, be prepared for some truly tough and trying times ahead. but i dont think you're ready for that, after what you said about ur wrists. dont hate urself just because you're different, its just wrong. if you're not ready, and i know you're not, then DO NOT come out of the closet and you need to try to hide it. if someone comes out of the closet and they aren't ready, then it can end VERY fucking badly, like in suicide.

and please...dont touch guys who are straight. there is a bi girl in my grade and i dont really care about that, except for the fact that she grabbed my waist and forced my hand to her boobs once and she was always grabbing the girls around her. yeeeah dont do that. hahahah. if you ever need someone to talk to, then you can always give me a message. btw im nice lol i wont say anything to hurt you, i was just being honest up there because that is what you need to know.


i wish that guys that are gay were not gay but bi, there is this extremely hot guy who's in the school play with me and he has an amazing singing voice and body but hes gay damn! it makes me so mad. haha.

yep... i would suggest not coming out until you are ready. but when you have the feeling to tell everyone in the world just vent it to somebody close you can trust that you know won't care if you're bi and accept you for you. i came out to my best friend last year, i just couldn't hold it in anymore... 15 years is a long time to hold something in. and i probably should have let it out to somebody sooner, life wasn't pretty when i kept it inside. little by little i told more of my friends that i knew wouldn't mind and i think that is the way to go if oyu want to let it out.

BUT - if it spreads throughout the school you will face extremely hard times. trust me, my school knows and i go to a catholic private school (dang parents) and most guys look at me like im checking them out or something when in reality the lot of them are hideous. i got into some fights because of it and luckily for me i took four years of martial arts and i defended myself. ive just come to ignore what people think about me, if this happens you should think the same thing. sally makes a good point, dont hate urself just because you're different, be proud.

and rule number 1 of being bi is to never hit on a straight person, it only ends up badly. i just restated some of what sally said because it is extremely important. if you have any questions about bi experiences and stuff i can tell you 1st hand, its not easy living a bi lifestyle. other than all of that, i lub u <33.

RunningToAnguish wrote: I don't know whether i am straight or bi, I get aroused when I see boys kissing, and sometimes get a...well you know.
I don't know what i am anymore, sexually, emotionally, and by the look of my wrists, physically.

I don't care one way or another. To me it doesnt matter on the gender it matters on the person.

You could be bi-curious

>DiamondintheRuff< wrote:
and rule number 1 of being bi is to never hit on a straight person, it only ends up badly. i just restated some of what sally said because it is extremely important. if you have any questions about bi experiences and stuff i can tell you 1st hand, its not easy living a bi lifestyle. other than all of that, i lub u <33.

I dont think ill be hitting on anyone for quite a while. Even if I am indeed bi and out of the closet, I think i wouldnt go for the straight people.

heh love you too